Girl bestie

I want my own friend. I want a friend that I don’t have to second guess, that I can trust and vent to. I want a friend I can hang with or stay in with. Like we don’t have to be outside all the time let’s stay in and cook and drink. I want a friend I can do ratchet stuff with but also do classy stuff with. I want a pretty friend because I don’t want her to ever feel like I’m dimming her light nor do I want her to be jealous of me. I want a friend that doesn’t have other friends that don’t like me, it’ll never ever be peace like that. I don’t wanna have to wonder if you’re defending my name behind my back because your friend doesn’t like me. I want a friend that will forgive me for my mistakes like ima do her. I want a friend that doesn’t count favors. I want a friend I can introduce to my family and they actually remember her because she will always be around…family functions, family trips, holidays, etc. I want a friend I can spoil and feel the love in return. I don’t wanna feel like I’m being used for showing love. Life happens and you live and you learn. You definitely grow apart from people but I wanna grow old with my friend. I want ME out of someone. #WishfulThinking
#Denver,co

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Waves

Not a rant as such but whats the point in connecting with people on the app if your going to read a message and ignore it

Its meant to be an app for making mum friends and support yet everyone ive connected with and have messaged after has pretty much read it and ignored it when ive literally said hi how are you its starting to make me want to leave the app really as feel like im not going to make any friends here

I have a stupid question…

I’ve only ever had two sexual partners. And I’ve never left a session feeling fully satisfied, and this is embarrassing to ask. Especially as a 28 year old woman, but what does it feel like to come? Am I just dumb?

Need to vent

Im 19 weeks pregnant and my bd and i broke up 2 months ago, he left me 1 moth before our wedding because “he wasn’t ready” (mind you he has 2 other children🧑🏻‍🦲) i just find out that he owns 20k on child support to his baby’s mom when he said that he was paying it. Im so overwhelmed with alot of mixed feelings. I wish he wasn’t part of my baby and i life and im really debating if i should let him be involved on my baby life

Husband refusing condoms

I came off birth control a few weeks back as I want to give my body a rest (bad side effects)
We have been using pull-out method but im just worried everytime incase he doesnt pull out quick enough.
He wont wear a condom and just laughed when I suggested it.
We do want to try for another baby in a few months just not right now!!

Making friends

Looking to make a group chat.
Would anyone be interested in joining?

Baby #2???

I’m mom to a wonderful 3 yr old girl and while she needs support in terms of speech and some social development (she’s in daycare, speech therapy and we are also awaiting autism assessment), I think I may be ready for baby #2. My plan was always to start trying again once she got more independent (this was before I started to notice delays) but now I know she’ll still need my support for longer than I expected which I’m fine with since there’s a plan in place. My main concern is my partner. He was very unhelpful during my first pregnancy and made me feel bad all through and even with my daughter I’m the one doing all the caregiving (in addition to working part-time). I feel like if I choose to do it again I’ll have to accept that I will still do it alone. But it’s my wish to have another child. Should I just focus on my daughter or go for what I want even if it would be a lot to handle alone?