Matcha & Mingles 06/27

When I moved back to the Central Valley , I realized I wasn’t the only one looking for community.
Making friends as an adult isn’t always easy. Between work, motherhood, relationships, school, and life constantly changing, it can be hard to find your people.

That’s why I created The 209 Social Club.

A space to connect, build genuine friendships, and create community with women across the 209.

Join us for our first Matcha & Mingles ☕️💕

Come solo or bring a friend. Most of us are showing up to meet new people too.
Comment 🍵 if you’ll be attending ⬇️

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in our community

Texting buddy I live in Florida!

Hi yall! I’m a busy stay at home mom, my son is autistic and we have a hard time trying to make friends, so River and I decided maybe we can try building friendships throughout the world.

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No sex…

Me and my partner haven’t slept together for at least 2 months now. I am 5 month pp and since having the baby we’ve maybe only done it 2/3 times at a push. This is only because I’ve insisted it too. I feel like I’m the only one who ever wants it and then it makes me think is he getting it elsewhere like what man does not want sex?

I have opened up and spoken to him about this and he has reassured me there is no one else etc. We have bickered alot since little one arrive and I know that doesn’t help. It’s just hard because I feel like the no sex is contributing to the bickering. I feel selfish wanting it and I keep asking him about it and the topic just changes or he doesn’t respond. Maybe all the arguments have pushed him away but I always feel like once we have sex it makes us closer.

Idk it’s got me reminiscing about our life before baby and how our relationship has changed.

Other than stop arguing ( it’s not always that easy) what can I do to make him in the mood? Or just re-spark the love between us as I feel like it’s gone

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Depression

Is anybody feeling really disconnected lately.
I'm a single mum to twins, and I don't really have any free time to myself and when family does come round they just hold my babies so I can do washing up and house work and they call me selfish for wanting one of them back. So I'm just sitting there doing nothing.

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New mom!

I have a 2 month old boy! I need mom friends because i am an introvert and stay home all day

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Make friends

Hi, I’m 26. First time mum to be. Baby due in November 2026. Looking for friends xx

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Commenting incognito

Does anyone else feel like they’d want a “comment as incognito option” on here? There’s so often that I would love to reply to someone with something helpful, but also am not comfortable with airing out my dirty laundry for anyone to see.

I can see how it could potentially get abused too, so maybe even an option that limits how many times you get to leave an incognito comment per day or something like that would be great.

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