So my husband has an ex that wants to be friends.
A little background knowledge is that she did a lot to hurt him and she wanted to apologize and have a conversation with him. He said "as long as ny wife is there" long story short they had the conversation over the phone and it seemed like she was flirting with both of us. She says she is engaged but also has a history of lying to people. At first I was like I dont care if your friends but now im starting to feel as if I shouldn't have said it. Im currently 32 weeks pregnant and have a kid with him.
She says she is pan sexual and im bi sexual so I dont know if she would actually flirt with me behind her fiance back. The other thing is she barely even mentioned her fiance.
I dont know if I should bring it up to her or what. On top of all this my husband and I are looking for a third
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Friends with exs is a no no..

Immediately no

All I saw was “so my husband has an ex that wants to be friends”

Get a third if you like but definitely NOT his ex.

If you don't feel comfortable having her as a "3rd" in your marriage definitely sit down & discuss it with your husband because I don't see this being a good idea 😬

No if they didn’t establish a friendship after some time post breakup and pre new relationship then no