Paternity??

Has anyone ever had doubts from the father of their child , no infidelity , just randomly requests a paternity test at the end or anytime during your pregnancy and starts treating you differently ? I’m giving him one but it makes me feel like have you had doubts this whole time ? Were those moments even real ? And just the uncomfortable feeling of him being in the room holding the baby he had doubts about :/ .

in our community

I feel like a complete and utter idiot, for a sahm that relies only on child benefit had some savings in one of my accounts of £350 and I got scammed into sending it to someone in Kenya, I swear I could cry!!!!

I can't believe how stupid I have been and it has put me in a foul mood all day, it was something on tikot where you like videos and get paid to do it but also involved prepaid tasks with cryptocurrency and they're always talking about how much money you can earn and just to listen to what they say until one of the tasks just kept getting more and more expensive until I had no more money in my account to give.
I have spoken tk the bank and will be able to get some of the money back but not the full 350!
Feel like such a failure, can't belive I got scammed into one of these things 😪😪😪

Partner watching only fans.

I just saw on my husbands phone he had went on some girls only fans 2 days in a row .. I feel pretty upset about it and am wondering what other peoples outlooks were. I personally feel like it’s not right, like I just had our baby and we have had sex already multiple times but finding time between exhaustion and our kids sleeping it’s not like we can do it daily. By the way I’m only 5 weeks post partum

Horny

Looking for a spicy talk

Why is my last name the price of marriage?

I’m looking for some outside perspectives on a situation in my longterm relationship.

My partner and I have been together, on and off, for 12 years and have lived together for the past 7 years. We've talked about marriage, but we've reached a disagreement that neither of us seems willing to budge on.

He has told me that he doesn't want to get married unless I take his last name. The problem is that I want to keep my maiden name as part of my identity. I’m the last person in my family line with my last name, and it means a lot to me. My preference would be to hyphenate our names so I can honor both my family and our marriage.

He feels strongly that a married couple should share his last name, while I feel strongly about keeping mine in some form.
I'm curious how others would view this. Is it reasonable for him to make taking his last name a condition of marriage? Is it reasonable for me to want to keep my maiden name through hyphenation? Would this be a red flag to you, or just a difference in values that couples sometimes have to work through?

I'd appreciate honest opinions and experiences from people who have dealt with similar situations.