Food!

What are we eating in this heat? 🤯Too hot to stand and cook! 😂

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Partner watching only fans.

I just saw on my husbands phone he had went on some girls only fans 2 days in a row .. I feel pretty upset about it and am wondering what other peoples outlooks were. I personally feel like it’s not right, like I just had our baby and we have had sex already multiple times but finding time between exhaustion and our kids sleeping it’s not like we can do it daily. By the way I’m only 5 weeks post partum

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Why is my last name the price of marriage?

I’m looking for some outside perspectives on a situation in my longterm relationship.

My partner and I have been together, on and off, for 12 years and have lived together for the past 7 years. We've talked about marriage, but we've reached a disagreement that neither of us seems willing to budge on.

He has told me that he doesn't want to get married unless I take his last name. The problem is that I want to keep my maiden name as part of my identity. I’m the last person in my family line with my last name, and it means a lot to me. My preference would be to hyphenate our names so I can honor both my family and our marriage.

He feels strongly that a married couple should share his last name, while I feel strongly about keeping mine in some form.
I'm curious how others would view this. Is it reasonable for him to make taking his last name a condition of marriage? Is it reasonable for me to want to keep my maiden name through hyphenation? Would this be a red flag to you, or just a difference in values that couples sometimes have to work through?

I'd appreciate honest opinions and experiences from people who have dealt with similar situations.

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Horny

Looking for a spicy talk

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Friendship

What qualities do you think help us form deep and lifelong connections here?

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Mom friends

I’m a 24 year old mom of two & would just love to have some mom friends to talk to 🫶🏾

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How come nobody replies to messages?

I don’t understand most people on this app. If we’re all interested in looking to make more friends, why are we not holding conversations or seem interested? I don’t know why, but I’ve been on this app for two years off and on, and barely anyone responds to messages, and when they do they tend to disappear. I’m done 🥲

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