Wondering.

How many of yall cut off guy friends while in a relationship on your own doing? Not bc your man wanted you to or said to. But bc you felt like it or deemed it as respectful.

in our community

Dads

Hi my husband and I were talking about how moms have apps like this one to reach other to other moms and feel less alone are there any moms out there have husbands/partners that would be interested in talking/being friends with my husband

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Has anyone ACTUALLY made it out the chat & hung out from here?! or is this just a time killer/distraction for everyone lol 😅

JUDGE FREE PLEASE - Becoming a SAHM

My husband is looking to switch careers and has been talking about me being a stay at home mom.

I have a very good career that I have worked hard to get, I also have my own bills and such. I would love to do it but also it’s my way of being “myself”. I mentioned a part time job and he said it’s all or nothing.

Thoughts from anyone who is a SAHM would be awesome.

Flexi working denied

For context me and my partner both work on the same department in the same company but on different teams with different functions.

Around 3 months ago my partner put in a request to condense his hours in to a 4 day week with one day off to look after our baby. I was also looking to do the same so our baby would only need to go to nursery 3 days and family members are helping with pick up/after nursery.

My partner's hours for some reason only got agreed yesterday and he has been given Wednesday off. Because it took so long to agree we lost one of the days we had reserved (we were able to reserve 4/5 before for some wiggle room).

We're now stuck with needing Monday covered and I've just been told I can't get it off.

I just don't really know what to do now, the only reason we don't have Monday is because they took so long!

I've emailed the nursery to see if we can get back on the waitlist for Monday. If I don't go back at all I will have to pay back some of my enhanced pay.
Just stuck really!

Biomom refuses to share report card

It’s so frustrating and she is so lame for it. SD has been out of school since the 10th officially, report cards have been available online since then. My husband has been asking her since then to either provide the login credentials or send him a copy of the report card. (She lives in a different state and has removed him from school records due to the excessive unexcused absences—whenever SD was absent, he’d receive a call from the school and he would reach out to bio to ask why she was missing the day. She didn’t like being questioned so she took him off everything)

The other day, he asked yet again, hey where is the report card. SD has been with us since school ended, and we would like to see how the year ended so we can celebrate or discipline appropriately. Instead, her responses have been “I’ll get it to you when I get a chance,” “I haven’t been home in a few days,” (which was a blatant lie and my personal favorite “since you want to press me on this topic, where’s my $400 for the month?!”

My husband responded with, “neither myself nor our child knows how she ended the year. We both deserve to know what she did/didn’t do well on. It doesn’t take 2 weeks to gather this information that is online. And she has been with me primarily this month, the money you are requesting has already been spent on her for summer clothes.”

I think he handled it lovely but I think she’s a corny bitch for keeping him out of the loop bc she doesn’t want to see that their daughter is primarily failing under her care and has missed more days than we know to be true. She’s a bird IMO would you agree?

What's your favourite thing to order from a Chinese Takeaway?

Feel like I always get the same things, what's your favourite?

I'm UK, I think the US is a bit different but I'd still like to hear your suggestions 😊