So his phone died (this wasn’t a lie his phone is kinda broken and doesn’t charge well) so he had zero communication with me form 10pm to 9am so he didn’t tell me he was going these places as he should.
He proceeds to go to the club with his friend who is also a father and husband then to frat party and got really drunk and fell asleep on the couch with his friend at the frat party…
I know he didn’t cheat becauae they both are loyal but it’s the part where he didn’t tell me he was going to 2 places a man should let his fiance know he’s going because there will be drunk females at both…
He came back at 9am acting all normal like what he did wasn’t crazy he claimed he avoided females but he was just out having a good time and got carried away
keep in mind he’s 25 his friend is 30
But FALLING ASLEEP at a frat house while you are married with a baby at home is wild work at I overreacting for being so concerned disrespected and mad????
Keep in mind he’s not a cheater nor is his friend so their purpose wasn’t to go out and cheat but I feel weird because if you are that drunk how can you know what exactly went down I mean he fell asleep there that’s the part that really buggs me …
I don’t know if I feel weird because I feel like he was potentially letting females too close to him maybe while he was unaware and drunk or because he fell asleep there somehow falling asleep there is connected to females idk how to explain that and I I’m just so upset I was unaware of all of this until 10am
He’s never done this before he’s never cheated and never not communicated while out he also only goes out with that friend maybe twice a month and it’s not to a frat party or club so I’m highly confused and concerned
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Sounds like he bought audacity from somewhere and didn’t inform you cause I just can’t imagine knowing that my form of communication to my family is broken and still doing things that will further fracture that line if communication. Don’t allow it be a regular thing, make a big deal of it now cause it’s a big deal

That is insane work of a “responsible adult” and to act like nothings wrong, and it was fine. Ew

He couldn't have used his buddies phone to call you?

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