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What’s your thoughts about sexless life with your partner?

I’m Korean and I’ve seen many Koreans comments saying that they don’t have sex with their partner because family don’t do that kind of stuff or they’re used to not doing it and it just got comfortable. Some even said marrying after long periods of dating sex slowly fades. Of course there are lot of different reasons too like after seeing baby coming out they feel gross or wife being fat they don’t have that feeling wanting to do it and some who actually is cheating. Even holding hands they say family don’t touch each other. I really don’t get this statement. If there are health reasons I understand but that’s not the problem they said they just don’t do it.

Sugar daddy

This may be a bit much, but I don't have any shame about it. Yes, I had a sugar daddy before I met hubby. I didn't have much of a sex drive, so I figured if I'm gonna do it at least get something out of it. Wasn't getting an orgasm...it was almost like an acting gig tbh. I was a single mom and the extra money helped. I didn't see him often just when I needed to, or he wanted. Hubby knew about it.. he told me that life was over once we got together. Okay, cool. Fast forward, we're married and I'm pregnant. We need money badly bc we're behind on some bills...hubby acts like he's stressed about it yet he wants to have 3 somes and shit. Idgaf about 3 somes bc again, I'm not a very sexual person. To me unless this person can help us with the bills, it's pointless. Why focus on having this fun when we are so behind on bills? I'd rather go see SD cause at least I can get the money to catch us up. But of course he doesn't want me to do that. I know some people may not agree with what I'm saying, and I understand. I guess I'm just venting because I feel like hubby is focused on the wrong thing And I guess I'm still stuck in that frame of mind where if a person can't help you beyond the sex then what's the point of dealing with them? He likes to call me a whore because of my past with SD, but honestly I don't care. Like I said I have no shame about it because at least I was getting something out of the deal that was actually helping me instead of just treating sex as a sport like he was when we met. I know this post is a bit much. I'm just venting don't mind me.

Cheating boyfriend

I am 21 wks pregnant and just found out like 5 minutes ago that my boyfriend and baby daddy is cheating on me. He was texting his dad while I was sitting on his lap & and went to his emoji keyboard— there were some certain sexually explicit emojis that he has 100% not used with me. We just got home from building our stroller & looking at a house to buy together.

I said go back to your emojis real quick and he immediately knew he had been caught and wouldn’t do it. I said “you’re actually fucking disgusting” and all he can do is sit there, bite his nails, and say “why?” acting like I didn’t just find out he is cheating on me.

This isn’t the first time but it’s the first time in a long time and I genuinely don’t even feel sad I don’t feel mad I’m just so frustrated and upset that once again my intuition was right and my trust was broken. I have a low paying job and cant afford to move into my own place and I definitely cant take care of the baby on my salary. I just don’t know what to do

**I cant work more hours or get a better job because I need my Medicaid to help pay for appointments and my birth

Mom friends!

Hey ladies! I'm trying to push myself past my comfort zone and social anxiety and find more mom friends. I do not have a ton of friends we're I'm at!

Blocked

So if someone blocked me and I posted incognito would I get a notification that someone commented but then when I click the post I see no comments? Same with a post that I comment on if I get a notification that someone added a comment but go on there and it’s all like 12 hour old comments is that cause the person who interacted had blocked me? Does this happen to anyone else or maybe I’m losing it

Have you ever donated blood?

Do you donate blood? Yes or no? And why?
I try and donate as often as I can, which realistically isn't that often. Pregnancy and post partum, travel restrictions, illnesses etc but when I can do it I always feel good after. It's my way of giving back that doesn't take very long and is free!