Looking for an accountability buddy

You could say that I'm just starting out, or restarting my weight loss/fitness journey. I want to be able to chase my kiddo without being short of breath. If anyone is interested in an accountability buddy or just wants to keep me accountable hit me up!

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Hey me I need this

I can’t do the accountability thing coz I’m in another country in another timezone but let me tell you doing Zumba for 2yrs and then starting salsa/bachata improved my stamina HEAPS. When I first started I got puffed out in the middle of a salsa song and can barely keep up but now 4yrs in I can dance a 7min salsa song and then a bachata dance before I need a drink/breather. So I highly recommend doing something cardio that is fun and that will also improve stamina. Zumba and salsa are high on my list to keep me accountable coz it’s on same time same day every week and when I miss it I feel stiff and shitty for the whole week until I can go again.

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Looking for a village. Im 29 with 2 kids under 3. Hubs is a blue collar and im a sahm. Let's chat!

Am I overreacting???

So I've just had another argument with my partner. We've been together for 7 years and have a 5 year old son and I'm due in 4 weeks. I've just found out he's been slagging me off to his work mates and saying I won't let him go out with them. For context I found out he was cheating on me 2 weeks before I knew I was pregnant. I suffer with depression and anxiety anyway and have been having counselling for it, this tipped me. We agreed to try again but there have been times when he's said he wished he was still cheating on me so he'd have a reason to deal with my attitude to now. I've not said no he can't go out but have asked if he could give me some notice and where he'll be as I'm high risk pregnancy and had a haematoma burst at 7 weeks, which we didn't know what it was at the time and even the nurse at work thought I was miscarrying. I am clingy and need reassurance at the moment and I thought he understood. The fact that he's been bad mouthing me with no context or admission as to why I'm like this makes me feel he blames me and doesn't understand at all. Sorry for the long post. Just very confused and need some advice. Thanks.

Hey any 420 mama ‘s in her 30’s

Really just trying to find 1 mama friend so we can vibe and chill !

Lonely

I am honestly about to give up on making friends. I talk to people. We talk for a few days and then they just ghost me. Or we actually meet up, and then they ghost me right after!
Motherhood and military spouse is already hard enough, but this is honestly depressing! Being at home 24/7 with NOBODY to talk to. Nobody to hang out with. Nobody to vent to. I’m hitting a big low in my life!

What do you do when someone trauma dumps?

I’m specifically talking about people you haven’t met yet online or people who you’ve just met.

I’ve had people dump baby daddy drama, childhood abuse, domestic violence issues etc.

I’m very lucky to have never experienced this level of abuse or trauma but I find it very off putting when people I barely know dump this on me. can we at least get coffee and small talk for a bit first ? 😬

Maternity

How is maternity money survivable im literally left with £42 after my share of the house bills and my car insurance thats with me being a supervisor and the place I work paying above minimum wage that is absolutely ridiculous 😱