Partner rant

So we sleep separate during the week we did with my first 2 as he works I do
All the night feeds. My only rule was he has to do the last feed and get him to sleep and bring him up it’s usually bring him to bed at 10pm. He’s now started moaning that he’s tired cause he’s been at work and got up for the gym at 5.30am which I said you chose to go the gym at that time. I don’t ask for any help with the night feeds and I have him all day sometimes I have my 2.5 year old to twice in the week alone also when she’s not at nursery am I being unreasonable that he should be doing the last feed and brining him bed cause he’s making me feel like crap about it

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He has his time when he goes to the gym so definitely you should get a bit of your time by him doing the last feed before bed. Not being unreasonable in my opinion otherwise when does your job ever stop? When’s your break time? Don’t feel like crap you’re asking minimal

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Not unreasonable at all!

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