Am i wrong for leaving

Me and my husband and child are on vacation we went to the beach and we were at the pool at the place we’re staying at I had our daughter while he got to swim she stayed getting very fussy and crying a lot so I asked if he could hold her he didn’t want to so I decided to go back to our room because she was crying very loud and people started staring I told him I was leaving n he said go I’m not stopping you when I got back to the room and bathe her I got back on my phone and this is what he sent me

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you’re definitely not wrong! men tend to think only about themselves . i wouldnt have apologized to him.

Girl, I am being so dead serious, leave him. I'm sorry, there is NO good excuse to treat your wife like that, especially knowing your daughter was fussing so loudly.

I don't like to jump to leaving the partner. But this type of behavior doesn't get better. There is no respect for you anywhere in that interaction or text messaging. You need to be respected, and he seems incapable of basic respect for his wife and the mother of his child.

Girl.. he’s talking to you like an abusive father talking to his daughter. I would leave him for your sake and your kid’s sake. This is absolutely not okay.

confused why hes talking to you like that in the first place? lil baby boy got pissy he didnt get enough play time in the pool? like cmon this is a grown ass man stomping his foot whining worse than my toddler. give me a break 🙄

I genuinely want to but every time I tell him I want to leave he tells me he’s going to try and get full custody of them because of my ppd

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Is it that serious?

So my husband woke me up for sex this morning. I was soo tired, and not in the mood. He got mad and said this is the kind of shit that will make him find sex somewhere else. Mind you it’s not like we have gone a week without sex. It’s been 1 day! We had company over last night, were drinking and slept late. So this morning I was trying to sleep in coz I’m off today. I also don’t like being woken up for sex, and he knows that. He just expects me to be ready to go when he is and that’s not how I function. That statement pissed me off!! I told him he’s free to go find it somewhere else. Is it really that serious??!! 🤦🏾‍♀️

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Side hustle?

Anybody know of any good side hustles for a SAHM? I see a lot of moms doing treats and sourdough but I feel like that market has already been saturated. Same thing with cricut stuff

Visitors around newborn

So I've seen a few of my best friends because I feel so comfortable and can be open and honest in how I am feeling around them but didn't see me aunts/nan until 8 weeks postpartum, they all live over an hour away and knew they would be round for most of the day & baby being passed around which I hate. Been called selfish and saying I'm pushing them out.
I love them all but I'm not that close with them, we didn't say how long we would wait for visitors because we were just seeing how we got on. My best friend came round for 2 hours of an evening not like the whole day at the weekend.
What do you think?