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Is it that serious?

So my husband woke me up for sex this morning. I was soo tired, and not in the mood. He got mad and said this is the kind of shit that will make him find sex somewhere else. Mind you it’s not like we have gone a week without sex. It’s been 1 day! We had company over last night, were drinking and slept late. So this morning I was trying to sleep in coz I’m off today. I also don’t like being woken up for sex, and he knows that. He just expects me to be ready to go when he is and that’s not how I function. That statement pissed me off!! I told him he’s free to go find it somewhere else. Is it really that serious??!! 🤦🏾‍♀️

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Beat him.

ITS NEVER THAT SERIOUS ESPECIALLY SINCE ITS ONLY BEEN ONE DAY!!!! Also don’t say something you don’t mean because if he does go cheat I’m sure you’d be hurt and the same for him

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That's ridiculous! But please dont tell him to find it elsewhere because then if he actually does cheat, he'll likely throw it back in your face saying you told him he could

This is called sexual coercion

Are we serious??? You don't OWE your body to ANYONE, EVER!! Him having that response and reaction is ABUSIVE. So yes, it is that serious but for different reasons.

I also haaaaaate being woken up for sex. Like seething hate so I get it.
His response is next level out of this world and unacceptable, wildly disrespectful. I deeply admire that you did not beat him because who tf does he actually think he is??

What you said makes no sense, so you'd be ok with him cheating?

Oh my Lord. I’m not a morning person, we haven’t had morning sex in YEARSSS I tend to get frisky at night if he said that to me I’d tell him yeah go and find your morning fuck then. He makes it like he’s got blue balls I mean for y’all it’s only been ONE DAY. Wowwww.

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Awful behaviour from him. This is not appropriate behaviour on his part. We’re all allowed to say no and also be told no and both partners should respect that. Perhaps a serious conversation is needed?

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I was 3 months postpartum battling an autoimmune disease I did not know I had back then, when my husband one night less than 3 foots from me was masturbating over half naked women on Instagram (our baby was sleeping right beside him and I was on a sofa in the living room) he did not know that I saw him. I tried to please him two days prior that although my episiotomy was not even fully healed. Is that considered cheating ?

PS: I already told him year before that to me watching adult content (I found a video of a woman getting naked on his phone ) while hiding is same as cheating.

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