“Is she always like this?”

I get the question “is she always like this?” EVERY time someone meets my baby. Does anyone else have a calm baby? I’m like “yes she only cries when she hungry or daddy picks her up too fast or she has fever or I wake her from a nap too early….” I mean she cries!! She’s my first and only so idk what’s normal. But i find myself reassuring people that my baby can and does cry. I’m a stay at home mom so baby’s needs are met… there isn’t anything to cry about. are babies supposed to cry about nothing? It’s a question I get all the time and I’m like maybe it’s not normal? Loooking for any other moms with chill babies who get asked “are they always like this?”

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I get that question a lot too it is normal for them to not cry. This is my first baby too but I helped raise my sister's kids and they didn't cry a lot either

We get this too, our little one is very chilled especially when we are around people but then has random moments of kicking off for no particular reason normally around 8.30pm for about 5-10mins but otherwise it's just for food or a bum change.

Mines a calm baby too. She has NEVER cried when being held by someone even when she was born. She cried twice she was a c section so she cried when she was taken out and the other it was when I handed her to the nurse to go to the nursery. And she calmed the second she heard my voice. But after those. Not once.

My little guy is chill but that's his dad fault. He's the chill one in our relationship. The only time he crys is when he needs something (like food/drink or changing) or wants cuddles in the morning. I know when I have a girl the chair is gonna be unleashed. Lolol

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