I just don’t know what to do anymore at this point my husband has stressed me a lot during my pregnancy and I’m starting to question if it’s even worth staying with him after she’s born. Any time he gets mad it could be over something small he will go straight to saying something like blaming me for everything saying he wants a divorce etc . Today I was just annoyed because he always wants to say women are more likely to do this or that and I tell him I believe the opposite and he gets very annoyed and one thing led to another and he mentioned missing his friend group and I didn’t know them so I asked who was in it and when he mentioned a specific girl in it I got upset because I thought she was maybe into women for some time but she definitely had some flirty thing going on with my husband some years ago. And I discovered this when I found out he had forgot to delete a whole bunch of stuff from his past pictures conversations etc with other ex love interests etc this was like 1-2 months before I found out I was pregnant. I came to forgive him but now he’s so bitter and resentful because of everything that happened when I was struggling to forgive him. He called me ratchet and said people like me make ourselves undesireble to men this morning he said this. It’s a lot. I’m annoyed he never even said sorry and to top it off he said he needs a week to see and think about if he even wants to stay with me or not. I went through his phone and didn’t have enough time to but I think I saw he might’ve unblocked someone and I need to make sure but if he did this would be a good enough reason to leave him for good. What do you guys think of my situation? I would appreciate any input…
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Hey, sorry your going through. First point I would say even just the fact the way he talks to you is absolutely disgusting I would leave! And the fact he is mentioning this woman and they had flirty conversations. This week thing seems a bit weird with the timing of the unblocking to me… honestly I would pack his shit and be done. Your happiness and the baby’s is what counts. X