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If your partner went out to the shop to grab a picture frame, and while out messaged "do you want anything else?" To which you replied "no", but then he came home with an ice cream for everyone in the family but you....would you be annoyed?

Like I didn't realise you were somewhere that even sells ice cream, and didn't realise everyone was getting ice cream but me!

Just to add, I'm currently 8 weeks postpartum and breastfeeding and so am permanently hungry 😂

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He didn't say I'm getting ice cream do you want any. He expected you to go through your thoughts quickly and select ice cream without it being mentioned.

That’s so annoying. That was intentional as heck. Like of course you would want ice cream. 🤦🏽‍♀️

Yes, I’d be annoyed in general, especially being so freshly PP. If this was me he’d be going back and getting more ice creams. Getting everyone an ice cream except you feels weird, unless it was a pack of 3 or 4 and that’s the exact number of people but still..

That seems very spiteful and intentional, especially given how hot it is in the UK today. Is he usually such a dick towards you?

lol I don’t like ice cream, but I would be bothered he didn’t specify what store he was at when asking if I needed anything else

Still wouldn’t be all that annoyed because my partner will go right back out and rectify it if I did need something

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