Feeling down

Completely off topic but today is my 30th birthday and I’m spending it feeling depressed and emotional , no one in my family including my partner made the effort to take the day off with me , no one made the effort to plan anything for me or even make it extra special so I’m sat here all alone

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Totally valid feelings you’re having! On your birthday you want to feel special, not sure if you’re pregnant now, but if you’re you also want some extra love and support.

I felt the same on my birthday and it was not even a big one (like a 30th, which should be celebrated big) so can definitely relate to what you’re feeling. Maybe not what you want to hear now but maybe try to do something special for yourself 💞 you’re worth it!

Happy 30th birthday ❤️ Don’t wait for anyone else to make your day special. Treat yourself — book that massage, reserve your favourite restaurant, or do something that makes you happy. You deserve to celebrate you. Stay strong ❤️

Firstly happy 30th birthday! I"m so sorry you feel like this. I totally understand as I love to make people feel special on their birthday but not everyone holds the same importance to birthdays which is hard. It should be other people making you feel special, but don't let them ruin it for you. Even if you don't want to leave the house to do something on your own, order in your favourite food and dessert, watch your favourite film or buy a new one to watch. Do something you love and do it just for you. I really hope you find a way to celebrate you because you deserve it 💕

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