Partner watching porn

Yes I would be upset too. I would find it very disrespectful. You have just given birth two weeks ago, you have been through a lot and emotionally and physically your body is still recovering. X

I guess it depends? Did you guys discuss if both / either watches porn before you had a baby?

Are you feeling comfortable with finding his browser history, sounds like a no, he could have at least used incognito or wiped it to be discrete lol. Is he spending money you don't have on it? Is he not sufficiently involved with helping you and baby out?

I guess it makes sense youre upset, I'd probably be too, but it warrants a discussion with him, to find out what specific things are feeling hurtful and why, and how can they be addressed and make you feel better? I am saying this because I like to have this type of conversation in similar situations; e.g. I feel jealous of something he does, it helps me feel heard, understand what exactly is upsetting / what am I feeling, what is he feeling, and what can he or I do to improve on the situation. Like maybe it's a way for him to cope with the recent stress (not saying that's necessarily reasonable, just an example)? Hope this helps x