Struggling FTM

Spent yesterday crying feeling like I’ve lost myself. Exhausted and feel like I’m not doing the best I can, questioning whether I’m a good mum, have managed to break the zip on my next to me in the night shuffling back in bed put my hand on it and it wasn’t fully down and it’s now bust so another thing I’ve messed up. Spent the last 3 and a half hours googling trying to fix it, have ordered replacement fabric from the Snuz website but I still can’t settle my brain and I’m going to have had no sleep now to do it all again. Feeling so lost, useless and like I’m completely crumbling

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I got my vbac

I had my precious baby July 3rd at 39 weeks and was blessed with my vbac I am so grateful to the lord for blessing me with my baby and a positive outlook on Vbac I got induced with foley ballon and low Pitocin unmedicated only used iv meds but still felt then up until 6cm and then got the epidural I labored for 20 hours and my baby was born same day at 10:04pm .. I did tear but healing has been so much better day by day and I praise Jesus & Yahweh for it 🙏🏽🥹🩵

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Birthing options

Hi I was wondering if I could get some advice on what birthing option to go for
I’m wanting to know as much as possible on a vaginal birth and a c section, so I can make a informed decision
I faint when in pain or too hot which is why I’m undecided and obviously want to go for the safest option

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Peeps who went to sleep overs or just spent time at other people's houses

Did you witness anything weird? Tell the story.

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Cramping after orgasm

Hi everyone,
Just looking for advice, I masturbated twice early with just stimulation, I’m 13+4 weeks and I’m just about curious how long you cramped for afterwards, I had the initial cramps that lasted for about half an hour, but now they’ve been on and off throughout the day since orgasming. Is that normal to have cramps on and off throughout the day afterwards ?
This is my first pregnancy so any advice is welcome 🤍🤍

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Newborn

My friends baby is now 2 weeks and mine is now 3 months. When is it okay for me to visit her and bring my baby with me? Or does that matter?

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Updated in my life!!!

Sorry for lacking postint on here! Last month was my birthday and a lot have happened, my sister, her boyfriend and my nieces that haven’t seen in 10 years came surprise me and took me and my daughters to seafood boil restaurant, which I ate like 3 seafood boil last month, my kids is on summer break and they’re living their life by going to sleepovers, water parks and birthday parties, me and my man went to the A$AP Rocky concert and then the day I went to see Don Toliver concert….. a lot have happened

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