My husband is really struggling…

Since our son arrived 4wks ago, I can tell he’s just been miserable. He huffs and puffs, and moans how tired he is- even though I’m breastfeeding and doing all the nights. He lacks any compassion towards me. I cried yesterday and he just said ‘I told you it would be hard’. This morning, he hasn’t asked how I am or how I slept. He’s in a bad mood and is banging, thrashing and swearing about the house. We have a toddler too so it’s not our first rodeo but him being like this is upsetting me so much 🥺

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Refusing to eat

My just turned 1year old is refusing to eat when normally he eats everything with no issues and I’m not sure if it’s the weather or a stage any advice would be great 😊

Suspicious

I was cooking dinner and realized the tortillas we had were bad so I asked my husband on his way home to pick up tortillas. When he got home he said he forgot and was making sure that the tortillas I had were in fact bad- I could tell he didn’t want to go. Anyway he left and drove off next thing I know he’s back at the door and I was like oh did you forget your wallet and he said no and grabbed his phone . Mind you he has an Apple Watch and his wallet . I just thought how odd is that he already didn’t want to go back out to the store but yet turned back around to make sure he grabbed his phone. Just seems so suspicious like was he scared id see something or go in his phone. Am I thinking too much into this?
Btw the store is literally like 4min from our house.

How do you practice self control/emotional regulation as an adult? Apparently I was never taught and I’m struggling with my 4 1/2 year old

I really don’t want to say mean things to my child, but I’m really starting to snap and k regret it so much. Someone plz help teach me how to control my words. I cannot deal with these temper tantrums and defiance, I’m so exhausted.

26 weeks pregnant and im doing everything alone

Anyone else out there have a baby daddy/bf/partner thats so addicted to video games and screen time that they take priority over you and your future child?
2 games in particular have ruined my damn relationship! Ive expressed my concerns and hes willing to go to couples therapy but he refuses to see anything wrong in his actions, his obsessive gaming, and being out for hours at a time, at all hours of the day and night.
Im getting a c section in october and he doesnt think im gonna need that much help postpartum. Im so fucked!

What is with the obsession of telling me to put my kid in daycare?!!!!

So many people lately have been telling me to put my toddler in daycare and I’m not understanding why?

I’m a sahm. I stay home with my child? Why would I put them in daycare? Every time I ask this I’m met with the same response “ so they can socialize with other kids “

My kid is enrolled in sports, gymnastics, tball, soccer and dance. We do swim and we do a nature playgroup. I have a lot of mom friends and do play dates. We go to the park almost daily.

What am I not giving my kid?

Is it normal to be constantly told this? Are you all putting your kids in daycare? Am I missing something?

I can’t help but feel insulted

Last min holiday- would you do it?

Mums, would you book a last-minute holiday abroad for a week with your husband and two toddlers aged 2 and 3… if you had to leave in just 3 weeks?

Have you ever done this??