Ghosted by my best friend

Like the title says, my best friend since around 2008 ghosted me a couple years ago and I still haven’t gotten over it. It was completely out of nowhere and I have no idea why. They were my last friend left after all my friends slowly dropped out of my life after I had my son and went through abuse with my ex-husband. I’m gonna be 31 this December and it’s just so discouraging looking for friends as an adult and literally having zero local friends and only a couple friends long distance that barely keep in touch. Especially being a parent, neurodivergent and lgbt. I’ve just been struggling so bad making connections outside of piggy-backing off my partner and hanging out with her and her friends. I want to have a close friend again 🥲 help

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🫩i know that’s gotta suck. i just moved away from where ive spent my whole life including my childhood best friend so i have no one here and it’s so lonely. ur so strong and brave for getting out i’m so proud of u. i’ve been trying to make mom friends for 2 years with no luck i may not be able to be a local friend but i can be a long distance friend if u wanna try

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