what do you do for work?

and how do you do it with children
as someone with 3 children all under 4 i. can’t work as of yet? but
how do you work what do you do and
if you are on benefits how does it work? are you better off ect
i wonder if it’s worth it actually working or staying on benefits (i do want to work though)
I became a mom young (21) i’m now 26 so i never have actually worked before .. just not sure about anything feeling lost and fed up in life

in our community

Is this fucked or normal

Everything is such an exchange in my relationship. I’m gonna skip a bunch of shit. He thinks that if he makes an effort to take OUR son off my hands for a moment then I should have sex/be intimate whenever he feels like it. I’m with our toddler day in day out I don’t get a break, he comes with me to ALL my appointments … to the gym, everywhere. He NEVER has him because it’s my job to raise his son 🥴

Today I’m exhausted, sore & want to relax and he tells me I always reject him and we never have sex. It’s been 48 fucking hours since we had sex.

So he tried to guilt trip me into giving him a handjob and I said no. Then we argued about who does what and when and I was just like no. I cannot do this shit with a 40 year old man. I’m on the lounge now because wtf is wrong with him.

He keeps threatening to break up with me because I don’t give him intimacy whenever he wants which is crazy cause fuck you.

No wonder I hate men.

A little revenge

So I been going through a lot, found out my partner was cheating on me, got pregnant, got in a car accident and after a few weeks we got pregnant again, I shouldnt have taken him back bc he was still with the other girl. I was nice to tell the girl he was playing with both of us when I found out. Anyways she didn’t care. He didn’t want me to tell his parents so he try to harm me and the baby two nights in arrow before telling his parents, we talked after a whole misunderstanding since his family kick me out. I did post ànd expose him on social media which made them more angry, have it time ànd in two weeks he come back but just lying and bc I wanted my baby to grow with his dad I took him in but he was lying he was still with the other girl while telling me he wanted our little family and stuff. I ended up finding out and went to the girl again asking her the truth and he had been lying to her as well ànd rejecting our baby. Long story short I got so upset bc there is more, so I called and reported him to his work for stealing goods, and buddy punching manipulating his work time, as well as I reported the girl’s parents to immigration since they use fake papers to work. I know it’s bad 😭I should let karma or God take care of it but I can’t with all the pain 🥺I was being nice to both of them how could they? How can I turn this type of person that I’m not.

Nursery gift

What teachers gift are you giving to nursery? We have loads of teachers so individual gifts are out the question.
Any recommendations? Tia.

Routines please

Please can someone share their day/ night time routine. I know it’s early but I’m all over the shop 🥹🤣

When you randomly run into naked pictures of women selling sexual stuff ,how do you feel immediately?

Obviously to each their own ,I’m just curious what women think obviously we all mind our business.
We know men pretend to hate publicly but privately is different story.

Like what?

I don’t get why I see people asking for friends then you message them and they start off being so dry like you bothered them and there not interested to talk but there making 20 post talking about how they don’t have friends or need people to talk to ? What’s up with that