Wondering if anyone felt a need to have their mom around as they became a mom? My mom and i have a strained relationship. I’m 10 months post partum and I still feel sad and feel grief over how inactive she has been for me and the baby.

I guess I wish I had more guidance since I’m new to this.

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Ever since we found out we’re pregnant we fight so much more than we used to, and it doesn’t seem to click for either of us that we’re going to be parents soon. We both have zero patience for the other and end up saying some hurtful things because of it. I don’t even recognize our relationship anymore and it worries me so much. I’m scared we aren’t going to get through this. Is it normal to fight more often? How did you deal with pregnancy rage affecting your relationship?

Does anyone want to be in a Florida mom group chat?

I live in largo Florida but I was wondering if any moms wanted a Florida mom group chat just something for moms who under no we can’t just take a walk outside to get a toddlers energy out because it feels like the sun is trying to cook us alive 🤦🏻‍♀️😂

Lonely

Anyone else finding this time really lonely? Ive signed up for a few local classes but all the mums either know each other and stick together /not really open for other friendships or pop in and out of class quickly going there just for the sake of the class vs social aspect. Im alone with my baby all the time and im finding it really isolating. I hoped to make some mum friends but that's not been the case for me

Tmi I’m sorry

Hi. So I been talking to this guy for 1 month. Something is off about him and i see the red flags but i need some reassurance. Here are something’s that happened or said.

1) I wasn’t rushing into sex, well he did. He egged me on and kept saying people have sex that’s what they do. He made a big deal because I wasn’t ready for sex. Well we tried doing it and it didn’t work out. We tried about 10 years ago and had the same result. He couldn’t get it up.

2) he told me his baby momma had a hickey on her and told him she’s seeing someone. It totally hurt his feelings.

3) I went over the other day and he said Xanax doesn’t do nothing for him. He’s into hallucination shrooms or whatever within that category. He ate them like they was nothing. My brother died from an OD in January.

But I’m still curious about how he couldn’t get it up, I know Xanax is way worse but he kept saying how embarrassing that is he couldn’t do it. I’ve never in my life experienced that before. So I was understanding why I was there. Well when I leave he will tell me well I was thinking about you and send me a picture of how hard it got.

He did tell me he watches a lot of corn. So I’m not sure what happened to him but this has only ever happened with this particular guy.

Which sucks because I truly feel a physical connection with him that I’ll probably never have. M

Managing to have time for yourself?

Hey girls really struggling here with my 8 month old and housework feels like I barely even have a minute to shower or wee never mind do something for myself! How are we all managing to have time for ourselves?