Tmi I’m sorry
Hi. So I been talking to this guy for 1 month. Something is off about him and i see the red flags but i need some reassurance. Here are something’s that happened or said.
1) I wasn’t rushing into sex, well he did. He egged me on and kept saying people have sex that’s what they do. He made a big deal because I wasn’t ready for sex. Well we tried doing it and it didn’t work out. We tried about 10 years ago and had the same result. He couldn’t get it up.
2) he told me his baby momma had a hickey on her and told him she’s seeing someone. It totally hurt his feelings.
3) I went over the other day and he said Xanax doesn’t do nothing for him. He’s into hallucination shrooms or whatever within that category. He ate them like they was nothing. My brother died from an OD in January.
But I’m still curious about how he couldn’t get it up, I know Xanax is way worse but he kept saying how embarrassing that is he couldn’t do it. I’ve never in my life experienced that before. So I was understanding why I was there. Well when I leave he will tell me well I was thinking about you and send me a picture of how hard it got.
He did tell me he watches a lot of corn. So I’m not sure what happened to him but this has only ever happened with this particular guy.
Which sucks because I truly feel a physical connection with him that I’ll probably never have. M
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It’s only been a month, as a mama- stay far away from that one. No good for a future, or your babies.
Girl, the first red flag in my book is pressuring you into having sex when you are not ready the second red flag in my book is the drug use especially if you say you had family members that just passed away from an OD I wouldn’t wanna see you set yourself up to get hurt again and to be honest physical connection is totally different from an emotional connection and the him not being able to get it up, could be from drug use
Thank you ladies I appreciate the feedback. I’m not going to pursue him anymore. I should’ve known when he told me he only gets his kid 6 days a month.
I had an ex like this. It got so bad so fast
You deserve so much better. You should never be pressured or coerced into sex. Full stop. No is a complete sentence. Do not let this fool convince you otherwise.
These are all him problems you shouldn’t even entertain. He can’t get it up because he’s fucked himself up. It had absolutely nothing to do with you. Run far away from this one.
Sometimes they can't get it up if they have diabetes. I knew someone who had that problem and he had diabetes.Or drinking too much as well.
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