Weak

Am I wearing for not leaving my partner even though it’s the right thing to do? I’m currently pregnant and we have a toddler. This pregnancy has been hard and I’m at a vulnerable place right now, I don’t feel ready to leave. It’s caused a rift between my family and I and now I’m completely isolated.

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*EDIT* first sentence is supposed to say “am I weak” not “wearing”.

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Would your family support you to leave?
Let you stay for free?
Help you with your babies?

Leaving is hard, but if you actually can leave now... you should leave now... you won't leave with a newborn, most likely, so you'll end up stuck there for another year or two....

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I have a family member who all but cut us off and if she came back saying she left her shitty partner we would welcome her with open arms.

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Lonely Mom

I’m posting anonymously because I’m embarrassed to admit this, but I feel really lonely.

Last year we moved across the country, and I still haven’t found “my people.” I’m a teacher, so during the summer I go days without really talking to other adults. It gets isolating.

My husband and I love each other, but lately it feels like we’re more like roommates than partners. Most evenings he goes to the basement to play video games and drink beer while I’m upstairs. We don’t spend much time together anymore, and I miss feeling connected.

Somewhere along the way, I feel like I’ve lost myself. I used to have hobbies, friends, and things that made me feel like me. Now I feel like I’m just going through the motions—taking care of everyone else while feeling invisible.

Has anyone else gone through something like this? How did you find yourself again? How did you make friends as an adult, especially after moving somewhere new? And if your marriage went through a “roommate phase,” what helped?

I don’t necessarily need all the answers. I just want to know I’m not the only one who feels this way

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Ugh

So he’s like NEVER HOME. I’m always so in the mood but I wanna like have sex woth another guy but I haven’t found a friend uk??? It’s just alot I hate this

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Birth control

Which is the safest option!
I dont know where but i heard the pill causes cancer and so on so to what extend is it true!
Pill or the arm shot?
For the arm shot does fertility get affected?
I want to be pregnant again but not even 2-3 years.
Please suggest!

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Weak

Am I wearing for not leaving my partner even though it’s the right thing to do? I’m currently pregnant and we have a toddler. This pregnancy has been hard and I’m at a vulnerable place right now, I don’t feel ready to leave. It’s caused a rift between my family and I and now I’m completely isolated.

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T.j max, Marshall’s, Ross gifts

They always make the tags hard to take off and it’s always obvious when gifting people things that they are from these stores. I personally don’t care if people gift me things from stores like this or any store but I wonder if other people think it’s tacky and not like it when they see I got a gift from there for them? Do you care where a gift is from?

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Divorce

My husband just told me he wants a divorce. I don’t know how I am going to survive this. I am in desperate need of friends.

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