If your husband said he used to pay for sex would that change how you feel about him?

Love me a man who respects sex workers. 🫡😌🤗

I find out these things before I marry a man. If he lies to me about it and I find out later on then we have 2 problems.

Yes id think he was corny 😂

I believe everyone has a past bt personally it wouldn’t be the fact that he slept with sex workers, it would be the fact that I’m finding out abt it as he is already my Husband. I think certain things should be told or laid out in the open when ur dating so the person ur dating can make an informed decision on whether or not they want to continue the relationship. So the problem for me would be not be because he slept with sex workers, the problem would be “why did he not tell me” and I’m not dealing with a deceitful husband who lies! I take honesty very seriously just like loyalty so it would be a wrap for me.

I'd think he was a lowkey loser

Yes, absolutely.

Yes, I find it extremely gross for a man to think of sex as transactionary like that and that any amount of money entitles them to women’s bodies, and I feel like it’s common sense for people to know that sex workers (particularly IRL meeting up sect of SWers) are often very poor, being exploited and taken advantage of, on drugs, etc I just think it’s so audacious and shameful for a man to engage in that and not feel scummy and corny

Also want to add that’s not how I feel about people who are SWers themselves, that’s how I feel about people who purchase sex work, I feel like they don’t care about women, about the affects paid s** has on women and I feel like they don’t respect women

Also if the roles Were reversed & I was the sex worker; I would find I would expect a man to change my mind abt me if he found that out. So it’s not just a standard I would hold for the person paying for sex bt I would also hold myself to the same standard as & I would definitely expect my Husband to change how he feels abt me if I told him that I used to be a sex worker. 😇

I wouldn’t care. That’s what sex workers are there for, to provide services.

I feel like I have to scrutinize my opinions on this and figure out what it stems from and if it’s fair after seeing some of my faves and people I respect having the opposite. I guess I’m confused about how even if we’re assuming this scenario the SW is fully legal, that doesn’t detract from the fact that legal prostitution still exists off of the commodification of women’s bodies and the very real power imbalances of sex gender and class. And it doesn’t detract from the reported mental toll like PTSD and depression that the work has on women. I think it shows a lack of moral character and responsibility to engage in it simply because you’re horny and have money and I can’t imagine being a man and acknowledging these power imbalances and still doing it, I feel like the current culture of humanizing SWrs (good obvi) has rubbed off negatively on how we let these men off the hook for buying SW

No