How often do you orgasm?

I almost never orgasm. Its a very rare occurrence.

At least once every single time. We use a vibrator sometimes. My husband used to get a little insecure about toys, but he’s grown a lot and is very comfortable in his masculinity now, he’s a lil freak lol. I would wait until you guys are in a fun flirty mood and slide the idea. I suggest telling him that you wanna use it on yourself while you give him head. Or tell him he can watch you use it/record it.

Honestly after having our son , I had to be vocal about what changed with how I wanted to be satisfied

Almost every time we do it ( from penetration ) I use toys sometimes but honestly if he’s uncomfortable with toys you should try riding because you control the motion that’s the position I orgasm the most in, you grind a certain way on it and it rubs against your clvt 😭😭

Every time. I do need clitoral stimulation, but nonetheless, he makes sure I get mine too, even if he doesn’t.

Be on top! That is the only way I can get mine. You have more control and sometimes they like it when you are in control and the aggressor chasing it. Any other position I just don't have one.

Probably 20-40x’s every time we can get some alone time, when we don’t need sleep more. Honestly, I quit counting at least 8yrs ago, but in nearly 14yrs I’ve only not orgasmed once & that’s bc I talked him into letting me give him a BJ the night before a procedure that meant we’d have to wait 6-8w. I had started my period & my periods are way too painful for sex. He doesn’t usually allow JUST a BJ, he doesn’t like quickies, he’d rather let the anticipation build for a month if that’s how long it takes to get a couple hours alone with me. We always tease about using toys, idk how we’ve managed to never end up including them, I guess we get too excited using our hands &….
The last time I used a toy was when I was pregnant & came off 10w pelvic rest & cramped. He couldn’t stand that “he’d hurt me” & couldn’t be reassured😭, so I discreetly kept up w/crazy hormones in the shower for 26w while he was celibate. I didn’t want him to feel bad,I wasn’t lacking any real intimacy, just O’s.

My husband was always against toys too but finally caved after 20 years of being together

I’ve never had an orgasm 🤷🏼‍♀️

I don’t have sex anymore because I never got anything out of it. It was too much of a chore and I always ended up in pain