Desperately looking for a new friend circle of moms 😅

I'm currently super south but moving to Pflugerville next month. I'm a stay at home wife who as of today is 29 weeks pregnant with my FIRST AND LAST baby. Tbh idk if I'm cut out for mom life but here's hoping!! 😂 I'm 35, married, a Virgo and somewhere between Type A & B but lean heavily into type A sometimes unfortunately lol I'm brand new to Texas although not a stranger to moving to new places. I love being a foodie, dog mom, wife traveling and doing photography. I'm really really BIG into building my village and being a part of a community. I think it's so important to remind myself that being a villager is inconvenient but the inconvenience is so worth the outcome of being apart of a village. I really look forward to getting to meet y'all and hope to see some amazing things bloom! 💕

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Hiiii

Hi, let me introduce myself. I am Clarisse, a Filipina, and I turned 33 last week. I am a proud mom of a CODA toddler girl! Is anyone available to be my friend and chat sometimes? 🥳☺️

Would i be a bad mom if I let my baby daddy have primary custody?

I have started a new business which requires me to be on the road alot. Since its the summer its easier since my daughter goes to her dad. When school starts I am nervous on how I would actually balance working and being a mom. My daughter and her father relationship is very rocky and I have tried to mend it but it is what it is. Her father lives with his parents but my daughter has her own room and they just bought her a puppy. I don't want her to feel like i abandoned her for my work or hate me for leaving her with them. She constantly ask when she is coming home every time she is with them. I know it will be diffucult if she has to be there full time. I'm really want our lives to get better...

Cheating

Is it considered cheating if your “boyfriend “ of 4yrs always tells you to leave I’m annoying I bother too much I am too much he’s done with me lazy bitch can’t support yourself when I’m sick plantar fasciitis and nervous system issues I did have a job but they weren’t compliant with dr notes
We have to kids he left state to work n miles away he still tells me then leave bitch go back to mommy and daddy
But still live at home w babies
Is it cheating if I download apps and talk to people if he tells me to gtfo

Need advice

My baby is nearly 10 months old now and I’ve been having issues with my husband since then. I want to split up but he is refusing to giving me the divorce cause apparently I can’t afford the mortgage by myself and loves me. Plus I’m in the end of my maternity leave leave and I’m not sure how I will be back and taking care of my baby. So I feel like I’m such a bad place with no solution for myself.

Any advice would be much appreciated

What to do? I overspent,not sure what ti do.

I got my UC top up today,I pay rent from it but I had nothing in my cupboards so I bought some food and also some clothes for my daughter(she is suddenly so tall and everything is short) I have overspent and won't have enough for my rent.I get paid form my job on 15th,so I was thinking I could pay some of it now and rest on 15th.I m housing association and I m already on payment plan...should I tell them or wait and pay on 15thz? I m so sick of making these choices,I still have school uniform to pay for...I m always stressed,like non stop,always down to mu last penny.

Feeling rubbish

I’m a 25 year old mam to 2 young children (2.5 year old and nearly 7 month old) and I just feel absolutely rubbish in my own skin.

I just don’t feel like me anymore.