Cheating

Is it considered cheating if your “boyfriend “ of 4yrs always tells you to leave I’m annoying I bother too much I am too much he’s done with me lazy bitch can’t support yourself when I’m sick plantar fasciitis and nervous system issues I did have a job but they weren’t compliant with dr notes
We have to kids he left state to work n miles away he still tells me then leave bitch go back to mommy and daddy
But still live at home w babies
Is it cheating if I download apps and talk to people if he tells me to gtfo

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The man is downgrading you and being horrific. I wouldn't cheat, but I would leave him. He clearly has no respect for you as a person, let alone his partner and mother of his children. Emotional affairs are in the same category as physical cheating. If that is how he treats you while you are faithful, imagine when your not?

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