Help me make a decision pleasssee

Job a: flexibility, $28/an hour, no benefits, part time (4days a week,8-4) which allows me to focus on homework and have time for family.
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Job b: full time, benefits,$36/hr, no flexibility or days off, 8-5pm which makes time hard for family and homework

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My baby daddy wants to get back together..

For some background, my baby’s sperm donor is 34 with 5 other kids (3 baby mommas). I’m 22 and the 4th baby momma and my son is his 6th kid. He’s never been a present father in his other kids lives. He was a very toxic and controlling person in the relationship. He started telling me who I could and couldn’t talk to early into the relationship. When he got angry lots of harsh things would be said and if he was mad enough objects would be thrown or hit. I had finally built up the courage to leave before I found out I was pregnant and got back together to try and work it out for the baby. But about 4 months into the pregnancy nothing had changed and it got worse, he even told me he didn’t want his son around a woman who wanted all that freedom… I got away again by turning him into the sheriffs department, as he had an active warrant for his arrest for not paying child support for this other kids. He’s been writing me from jail wanting to fix things and prove he can be a good father. But I just don’t believe it, in 16 years he was never a father to any of his other kids. What makes mine different. Am I in the wrong for not even wanting him in my son’s life? I personally believe inconsistency and his behavior/attitude towards me is worse than him just not being an active part of our lives.

Sex question

I’m 36 weeks pregnant and whenever I orgasm my head severely hurts it just recently started I don’t know if that’s something normal I never used to experience it before is it something to be concerned about?

Group chats

Don’t create or join a GC if you’re going to be a complete bitch. So many groups I’ve joined have been full of mean girl energy and it’s pathetic. Have your experienced this?

Contraceptive patch

Anyone using the patch? I've just started using it and I put it on my upper arm but realised it's not a good spot for it. Where have you put yours? I don't know what spot on the body is the best for it

Is it normal? Nervous about sex

Is it normal to be extremely nervous about having sex again? I’m almost 1 month pp, had a second degree tear and still feel slightly sore down there; I’m nervous about how sex will feel since I’ve had my baby. This is my first child and i do feel a bit sore. My partner is very ready and the 6 weeks isn’t even up. It’s very nice to feel wanted and I’m also annoyed and feel pressured even though he said we can take our time but sex is all he keeps bringing up. Ugh i don’t know how to feel, this is scary. I love sex and my partner ugh why do i feel this way . I hate hormones , I’m annoyed ..

🤷‍♀️how to not care

Some might say I’m overthinking but idk. My coworker friends have all suddenly quit one by one within a few months from each other. I know the job was fine but the management sucked. And since I have been on maternity leave it seems that everyone has lost contact with me. Only me. How do I know this because they post get togethers on their stories and didn’t even asked me. Why do I care right? Because I thought we were more than coworkers, but friends. We would go to events all the time, dinners, outings but since I’m the only mom of the group I feel now forgotten. Is it selfish for me to feel this or should I try to just accept that I’m going to need to look for new friends and just move on.