I can't cope with the naughtiness

My daughter is surly in the terrible 2 she does not listen at all and it's pissing me off to the point I want to kick her into next week. She really winds me up and I just walk away nothing works with her. Telling her off, taking things off her. Putting her in bed. She just constantly screams and boots everything. She has started to hit me when I tell her no I don't know where that's come from I've never laid a finger on her.
She is with me 24/7 she's not left my side once since I've had her. I really need help with this I'm starting to be more distant towards her due to her behaviour getting so bad.

I just don't know what's happened to her she had just switched massively

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Your daughter's brain is delveloping. She has all these feelings and emotions and can't express them the way an adult does.
Also young children feed off the energy their parents give off.
If you shout and act out towards her, her behaviour will only get worse.

She doesn't understand what is happening to her and it's our job as their parents to guide them.

There are a few things you can do to better prepare yourself and to help you understand what is happening to her -

Read the NHS Child Behaviour Advice for consistent, practical strategies you can use at home.

Visit Zero To Three to understand the root causes of challenging toddler behavior.

Review CDC Positive Parenting Tips for a look at developmental milestones and ways to encourage emotional growth.

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Not the place to ask I understand but is there anyone who can please help with nappies or food until contacted by my baby bank referral? Shouldn't be too long now and I can happily repay when I next can x

Tia x

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