Surgery questions

Hi all, I have 2 young children (14 month old and 2.5 year old) and am due to have laporoscopy in 2 weeks. We have family help for after luckily.. I know they have to remove tissue as my ovary is fused to my uterus now, and they’re going to see what else they can remove but I’ve never had the surgery before and just want an idea of what to expect realistically? Also, how long do I expect off work? I assumed 1-2 weeks but the dr at pre op said 4 weeks so I’m a bit confused!! Thanks xx

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She’s here!

Predicted to be just shy of 8lbs…

6lbs 11oz 🩷 and now we don’t have enough baby clothes to fit 😝

They couldn’t remove my ovarian cyst due to complications but, at least she’s out and we are both ok after being in surgery for what seemed like for ages!

Labour Guests

I’ve been talking to my sister about when I’m in labour and who I would want in the delivery room, which is just under 20 weeks away.
It’s my first baby and I honestly have no clue what to do because I want it to be me and my partner alone, but then I would also like my mum there because it is my first, and my mum was there for my sisters first and I want her to be there when im having the baby. But she can get a bit too much sometimes and I don’t want her to be stressing me out more than I probably already will be. Is there away for my mum to be there but come in only when I call her in or ?

Please help 😅🥲

MAT B1 form

Has anyone received their MAT B1 form yet? Work has just asked about it and I haven't received it yet. My next appointment isnt until 28 weeks. Thank you

Strange colour discharge or normal?

I’m 37 weeks and this is the colour of my discharge today (ignore the blood- it was from a shaving cut!)

Confused

As my due date is getting closer, I’m so confused on what I want to do. Had a previous 3b tear and was set on elective c section but now I’m worried I’m doing the wrong thing and maybe I should just try naturally and hope I don’t tear again. What’s everyone’s experience on a planned c section? I’ve heard the recovery is nasty

Elective C-section - Would you be concerned

I'm feeling a bit all over the place after my consultant appointment this morning.

This is my third baby and due to previous complications, will be my third C-section. I have a history of large babies (not picked up in growth scans), hemorrhage during delivery (happened with my 1st) and sensitivity to spinal block (basically goes way too high).

Because of this, third baby has been consultant led and throughout I've been told C-section will need to take place between 38-39 weeks so that I don't risk going into labour and to avoid a big baby.

Today at my 36 week scan, I asked again when the C-section date would be and I was told they can only give me a provisional date (which they are suggesting is over 39 weeks). But they stressed this may be moved back/won't be confirmed until the week of the section in case they get emergencies.

I was in the room when my consultant was talking to the booking team and she kept saying, we cannot let her go past 39 weeks.

The upshot is the new provisional date is now 39 weeks exactly but they stressed this is very likely to be pushed back because the booking team don't view me as particularly risky

I feel really stressed about a) not knowing, b) potentially going against the guidance I've been given all pregnancy because they are busy.

What do you think? Is this something I should accept or should I keep pushing back?