Mom Brain

I feel like my brain NEVER shuts off & because of that I’m always forgetting things. I constantly feel like I have a million things to do & definitely not enough time & energy to do it all. Barely keeping my head above water & that’s all I have the strength for. Being a SAHM is so much more than what others realize & it’s so very frustrating 😔😵‍💫🙏🏼

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I’m seeing now that I had my baby (4 months pp) that I can’t look at my phone and hold a conversation at the same time anymore lol. Idk if that counts as mom brain

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I’m 1.5weeks pp and my brain is already in high gear. I’m trying to function and heal on little sleep, track feeds, diapers, etc. keep track of appointments, registering birth, mat leave paperwork, more appointments. Never fully sleeping cuz you’re listening for the baby. All while the dad snores for 10+ hours a night. And my mind is working double time to think of what I’m forgetting while trying to do all that! Sooooo thankful for tracking apps… I check that a million times a day to see when last feed was, see if we had enough wet/ dirty diapers today.

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Utilise your phone more- your calendar, alerts, notes, timers. I’ve accidentally double booked myself before for parties/play dates coz I forgot one was on so I’ve had to leave one midway to get to another mid-late. So now for all events I put it in I calendar with an alert for 2hrs before, 1hr before and time to leave I have 3 alerts for event 😂 and if I’m cooking anything I’ll use the oven timer or else I’ll get distracted and shit will burn lol. Anything that runs out gets put on the shopping list on the fridge. Talk to Siri more coz she does everything for me and is really helpful if you use her right, she’s literally my second brain

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My partner's sister has just announced she's getting married this October!

Do we go or not?
Long story short, we don't talk and do not get along and haven't for the past 2 years nowm She has invited me, my partner and our children.

She texted out of the blue after barely speaking to us

She didn't go to our Daughter's her god-daughters first Birthday, she didn't even send a card or anything.
She didn't go to our second Daughter's Christening, same again didn't even send a card. - she is coming over this month for our second Daughter's Birthday.

We live in Northern Ireland
She lives in England
She's getting married in Scotland during the week.

It would cost a lot of money for us to go, I would have to pay for half of the cost with my partner.

My partner is blank straight refusing to go on his own, even though I have told him to go and I'm ok with that but he won't.
So the only way for him to be there is if I go with our children and pay half.

I really don't know what to do. I don't want to be a walk-over and go to someone's wedding who doesn't even like me, doesn't talk to and deleted me off social media and bad- mouthed me to her whole family.
But at the same time I want to be the bigger person

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Are you getting any time to yourself?

Have you had chance to have any time to yourself since having your baby yet?

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Maternity

When is everyone going on maternity leave? Is 34 weeks too early 🫠

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Hey I need more girls or a best friend

But idk why people don’t ask me 🥹

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Mom Brain

I feel like my brain NEVER shuts off & because of that I’m always forgetting things. I constantly feel like I have a million things to do & definitely not enough time & energy to do it all. Barely keeping my head above water & that’s all I have the strength for. Being a SAHM is so much more than what others realize & it’s so very frustrating 😔😵‍💫🙏🏼

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