Lost myself

Hi everyone, reading through posts on here and it feels like so many resonate with how I am feeling. Mum to two little ones and with very little ‘village’. My husband is good but it’s on me to think of everything. I’m so down and stressed out, I’ve had to return back to work earlier than expected to being in extra cash but if I’m honest I wasn’t ready and I feel so overwhelmed and anxious ALL THE TIME. I don’t have family I trust to talk to (even though I have maintained contact I don’t come from a caring family ) and I’ve tried to say to friends im struggling and feeling down but no one seems to check in or care - it’s hard to think friends don’t want to support but it feels that way! I’m not looking for practical help and support from others but would mean so much for anyone to ask how I am but they don’t. Am I bad for feeling this way?? I feel like I’m going crazy but feel so isolated

in our community

Sex

At what stage in pregnancy did you stop having sex? I’m almost in my third trimester now and it’s just not comfortable for me at all. We do other stuff but I just can’t see us having sex until after birth now. Is this normal? I feel like a bad wife but also I feel like my comfort takes priority here?

Maternity

When is everyone going on maternity leave? Is 34 weeks too early 🫠

feeling disconnected

feelings disconnected from my one month old like if he doesn’t know i’m his mom 🥲 does anyone else feel this way or have felt this was?

I need support

so I'm 30 weeks pregnant and found out my man was cheating on me. he blamed me. I asked him to block her, he didn't block her til a week later when I asked to see her blocked . he also works with her. he asked for nudes and apparently she denied but he won't let me see the messages dating back to when we started dating. he claims they didn't sleep together tho.

Men in pregnancy

Vent moment
Why is it men in pregnancy think its all about them?
How they feel?
They dont understand whats happening tonu but its ur fault for not sharing ur constantly in pain or you try and control your mood swings but thats not good enough. Or your sex drive is so dead, that it is your fault.
My situationship has the nerve every single day to remind me that his feelings means more then what is happening atm.
Why? Everything he does or smells like pisses me off.
Im ready to tell him theres the door. But then I cant afford rent..
I am tired. And exhausted. And I tell him but no, that is not good enough.
🙄😬😮‍💨😭🤬

Food on holiday

We are going abroad all inclusive however the restaurant opens later than LG’s dinner time, how have others dealt with this? A family member said they took meals in their suitcase?