Men in pregnancy
Vent moment
Why is it men in pregnancy think its all about them?
How they feel?
They dont understand whats happening tonu but its ur fault for not sharing ur constantly in pain or you try and control your mood swings but thats not good enough. Or your sex drive is so dead, that it is your fault.
My situationship has the nerve every single day to remind me that his feelings means more then what is happening atm.
Why? Everything he does or smells like pisses me off.
Im ready to tell him theres the door. But then I cant afford rent..
I am tired. And exhausted. And I tell him but no, that is not good enough.
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Because some men aren’t emotionally intelligent enough to understand and selfish. If they had to go through what we do, there would be no babies!
Little boys in pregnancy are like this .. it's not supposed to be a thing...
I been there and I absolutely resented my Ex foe the behaviour towards me. I felt so isolated and was made to feel like a burden in asking for support and he deliberately refused to do anything to help and I just felt like this was only going to get worse as they baby is born.
Sure enough I was right he was demanding of sex and attention on him more than the baby I was looking after physically emotionally and financially. I ended up paying for everything and looking after them all the time and looking after the place on top of child care.
Whilst he went off did whatever. Did a bare minimum job. Whikst I worked more hours and left maternity leave way too early as he was not doing enough finically to support me and the baby.
Things got worse and he watched it and did NOTHING!
That is how it all ends up usually happening. I say this with straight up bluntness but you're better off without that person. If they are making you feel like this consistently and is hurting you. They do NOT care nor love you
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