Asking for a friend - what is worse ?

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Men in pregnancy

Vent moment
Why is it men in pregnancy think its all about them?
How they feel?
They dont understand whats happening tonu but its ur fault for not sharing ur constantly in pain or you try and control your mood swings but thats not good enough. Or your sex drive is so dead, that it is your fault.
My situationship has the nerve every single day to remind me that his feelings means more then what is happening atm.
Why? Everything he does or smells like pisses me off.
Im ready to tell him theres the door. But then I cant afford rent..
I am tired. And exhausted. And I tell him but no, that is not good enough.
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I need support

so I'm 30 weeks pregnant and found out my man was cheating on me. he blamed me. I asked him to block her, he didn't block her til a week later when I asked to see her blocked . he also works with her. he asked for nudes and apparently she denied but he won't let me see the messages dating back to when we started dating. he claims they didn't sleep together tho.

Social media

My man has me blocked on social media and won’t friend & unblock me … so backstory yes when we would break up or get In really bad arguments I would unadd him or block him. A couple months ago I unblocked him and added him but he never added me back and I would say can you follow me back w.e he never did it. We ended up breaking up getting back together (we live together) and I blocked him again and he blocked me. Now I just want us to be able to follow eachother and stop the blocking. But he doesn’t want to add me he said that he’s tired of getting blocked everytime we argue and I can understand that but that doesn’t mean to just keep eachtoehr off of social media. we have a kid together I’m pregnant like dude just add me back why are you fighting so hard about this we are literally in a relationship I don’t feel like it’s that serious to not add me back. Anyways is he wrong for not wanting to be friends on Social media anymore idk I just think it’s weird cause like I want my man to be curious about what I post and I want to see what he post or am I wrong ?

I feel like wha also makes me insecure about it is like he never lets me see his phone screen idk his passwords it’s just weird I’m already an overthinker we’ve had past issues about what he post on social media and liking girls pics even dm a girl before in the past. Idk If im just being insecure and just let him keep me blocked or that’s not how this should go in a relationship he’s like social media isn’t that serious but if he feels like that why does it hurt him to just add me back when he’s clearly on social media

Food on holiday

We are going abroad all inclusive however the restaurant opens later than LG’s dinner time, how have others dealt with this? A family member said they took meals in their suitcase?

Would u leave ur partner because they don’t pay bills on time?

Might be kind of a strange question (maybe not) but would you leave ur partner because they don’t pay their/shared bills on time? Is that a deal breaker for some or a red flag? 🚩 LMK

Mums in the Creative Industry?

Hi everyone.

I'm looking to connect with other mums in the creative industries. I'm a singer-songwriter and performer, and since becoming a mum I've realised how hard it can be to find people who understand the balance between creativity, gigs, motherhood.

I'd love to meet fellow musicians, artists, writers, actors, dancers, photographers, or anyone working in the arts. Whether you're freelancing, building a business, or just trying to find your creative spark again, it'd be lovely to connect, chat, and support one another.