Would u leave ur partner because they don’t pay bills on time?

I mean has it been going on for a while? Is there communication regarding the bills (reminders of when their due) or anything? There's not enough context I think to actually have much of an opinion on this 😅

I also don’t like how I’m often left in the dark. He’ll make it seem like everything is in order and then I’ll find out later that it’s not.

It would depend on why they aren't. If theyre struggling but doing everything they can/actually trying then it would still be frustrating but not necessarily a deal breaker.

If they are just irresponsible and refusinf to change or controlling then its a definite red flag.