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My man has me blocked on social media and won’t friend & unblock me … so backstory yes when we would break up or get In really bad arguments I would unadd him or block him. A couple months ago I unblocked him and added him but he never added me back and I would say can you follow me back w.e he never did it. We ended up breaking up getting back together (we live together) and I blocked him again and he blocked me. Now I just want us to be able to follow eachother and stop the blocking. But he doesn’t want to add me he said that he’s tired of getting blocked everytime we argue and I can understand that but that doesn’t mean to just keep eachtoehr off of social media. we have a kid together I’m pregnant like dude just add me back why are you fighting so hard about this we are literally in a relationship I don’t feel like it’s that serious to not add me back. Anyways is he wrong for not wanting to be friends on Social media anymore idk I just think it’s weird cause like I want my man to be curious about what I post and I want to see what he post or am I wrong ?

I feel like wha also makes me insecure about it is like he never lets me see his phone screen idk his passwords it’s just weird I’m already an overthinker we’ve had past issues about what he post on social media and liking girls pics even dm a girl before in the past. Idk If im just being insecure and just let him keep me blocked or that’s not how this should go in a relationship he’s like social media isn’t that serious but if he feels like that why does it hurt him to just add me back when he’s clearly on social media

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Yes I’d get rid haha definitely up to no good if a man don’t let you on his phone or adds you on stuff there definitely hiding something x

Red flag on both your ends..... blocking eachother? Childish..... petty..... what are you guys trying to hide?! Seems like you both have a lot of growing up to do. But it also seems like your taking the necessary steps to grow up and get past all the childish, pettiness. Hes still acting shady..... tell him straight up, grow up or get out..... my husband used to do that shit and i told him to knock the shit off or I was out.

I’d do the same if someone kept blocking and unblocking me and see as their own fault for playing mind games. That being said, you’re now left with a lot of uncertainty because he’s secretive with his phone, which is a bit shit.

It’s kind of a good lesson on the importance of maturity.

I can understand why blocking and unadding back and forth is exhausting. If that was my partner I wouldn’t add them again or follow them. I’m a women and I would be so annoyed, I wouldn’t add you again. And that’s not because I’m hiding something it’s because I would be annoyed asl

I would say that I’ve blocked him two or three times within the last two years

Two times when we actually broke up and he moved out and then one time recently when we broke up and I try to kick him out, but we obviously made up

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