So my partner who I’ve been with for over ten yrs is just slowly grinding on me with his view on life. It’s actually embarrassing. He’s flat out racist and right wing. Today was the nail on the head when he said “I
Don’t want our kid mixing with that culture in nursery incase he touches their saliva”
Like what the heck do you say to that?
It’s a genuine problem for me now dealing with his moods because he’s so against other ethnicities and doesn’t want our child mixing with them. I’ve had a long talk with him about how this is madness and even gone as far as to tell his mum. The issue is that he’s so sweet and a great dad and I love him to bits but this is just an ugly side to him that I’m scared is gonna rub off on our child. What am I meant to do?
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That’s a horrific and ugly thing to say. I’m sorry you’re in this situation, but I absolutely could not be with someone like this nor would I want them to be spewing their hateful crap around my kids. Hate is taught and if you’re not careful, your kids will have the same views.

Straight in the bin. If he can’t wake up and realise how wrong these views are, he is going to brainwash your child into becoming someone hateful. How will you feel if you’re called into school because your child has been racially abusing someone? Unfortunately that’s the potential reality 💔