Baby boys stuff

Im a teen mom im 17 and dad is not in babys life at all and doesn't plan to be in his life even after hes born i am 23 weeks and 6 days pregnant i will be 24 weeks Saturday and this is half of the stuff i have for him he has drawers full of other stuff I want to post this cuz i feel so accomplished and I feel like it me and him against the world my son was not plan and alot of people told me I would be a bad mom cuz i got pregnant so young I got pregnant with him at 16 found out i was pregnant a month before my 17 birthday witch is in April on the 21st I was told so many things that I wouldn't able to provide or protect him when I found out i was pregnant on March 30th I stop smoke weed and weed is what helped with my mental health like depression and so much more I did that I stoped when I saw those pink lines I gave all my equipment and gave my stash to my other family members that smoke but people told i would go back and look at me i haven't people told me I would chose the weed over my son and I didnt im still clean and i beat every bad thing said and lie told I post this to tell any other single mom or teen mom or mom in general no matter what your going trough you got it don't let what people say put you down no matter how old or how rich you are no one is truly ready for a kid
And cant forgot they said i would be a drop out and to prove them wrong i went to night school graduate early and now I go to durham tech community college for nursing and i do that online so I can be a stay at home mom

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You’re doing amazing girly!! I had my son at 15 (3 weeks before my 16th birthday) my son’s father hasn’t been involved either! My son is almost 9 and is my bestfriend & a total mamas boy! You can message me at anytime if you feel comfortable! I’m 24 years old now and 27 weeks with my 3rd! I’m in college and pursuing my dreams! Even though you are having a baby young- it DOES NOT ruin your life!

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Awe my birthday is April the 21st as well. I just turned 28 weeks

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I'm very very proud of you Hun, don't let peoples negativity ever impact you. Watch how all the haters will change face when you have your son. Never forget how they treated you when your pregnant because switch face fast after a baby is born. Your doing really good, form experience my mom had me an smt brother when she was 15, she didn't take care of us and abandoned us for a bit. You are such a Trooper, and I'm proud that you have stood your ground. Remember there are worse people out there. Your son will always look up to you and love you. I'm also a first time Mom and I'm currently 25 weeks pregnant. Message me anytime!

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Baby boys stuff

Im a teen mom im 17 and dad is not in babys life at all and doesn't plan to be in his life even after hes born i am 23 weeks and 6 days pregnant i will be 24 weeks Saturday and this is half of the stuff i have for him he has drawers full of other stuff I want to post this cuz i feel so accomplished and I feel like it me and him against the world my son was not plan and alot of people told me I would be a bad mom cuz i got pregnant so young I got pregnant with him at 16 found out i was pregnant a month before my 17 birthday witch is in April on the 21st I was told so many things that I wouldn't able to provide or protect him when I found out i was pregnant on March 30th I stop smoke weed and weed is what helped with my mental health like depression and so much more I did that I stoped when I saw those pink lines I gave all my equipment and gave my stash to my other family members that smoke but people told i would go back and look at me i haven't people told me I would chose the weed over my son and I didnt im still clean and i beat every bad thing said and lie told I post this to tell any other single mom or teen mom or mom in general no matter what your going trough you got it don't let what people say put you down no matter how old or how rich you are no one is truly ready for a kid
And cant forgot they said i would be a drop out and to prove them wrong i went to night school graduate early and now I go to durham tech community college for nursing and i do that online so I can be a stay at home mom

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