Terrified 2nd c section

Absolutely terrified off my second c section. I keep trying to go to sleep but then I have a nightmare of everything losing to much blood or dying :( please help ladies. My iron levels haven’t been great when last checked it was 122 and ferratin 14 but one doctor says you need infusion another says not so I’m really stressed

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Coil fitted during planned section

Has anyone had experience of having a coil put in during a planned c section? Any pros or cons I should know about? I've never had a coil before

False starts

Anyone dealt with false starts? How long did it last for you? My baby is STILL having them, she’s 13 months and has done since about 5 months. Pretty much every single night since then 😭😭😭 I’m so done with it now I thought she’d have stopped by this age 😩

Chosen hospital

I was told at my first midwife appointment that I can choose what hospital I would like to have my baby at explaining I wanted Broomfield. Now at 29 weeks I’ve asked about having my baby at Broomfield hospital in Chelmsford where I had my first. But have been declined and will have to have my baby at Colchester where I live. The childcare we have for my first for when I give birth is in Chelmsford and we need to drop him off. I really do not want to have my baby at Colchester and I’m at a loose end of where to find help on what to do. I’ve had a different midwife at all of my appointments so far and just feel as though I’m not getting the support and help that I need. If anyone knows of what to do or where to ask for help that would be much appreciated, it’s causing me lots of anxiety & stress 😣

Early gender scan

I got a early gender scan at 16 weeks and was told it was a girl. I’m just nervous that at my 20 week scan they will tell me it’s a boy. Has this happened to anyone else before.

VBAC

Feeling super deflated after my midwife appointment today. I’m 38 weeks and my first was a planned caesarean as baby was breech. My midwife said she ‘cannot’ book an induction until 41 weeks and that we’ll try a sweep at 40 weeks. I just want baby here now! I’m so worried about having another c section as that’s the last thing I’d want. Any tips on starting labour?!! Baby is currently 4/5 engaged.

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Birth Reflection

I have a birth reflection appointment scheduled for tomorrow, and I was just wondering what kind of questions can I ask them?
I had a lengthy and complicated birth, I was induced which ultimately led to an emergency c-section. However, I had been told at 11:30pm on the Tuesday night that I needed a c-section, but was left until 5:30am on the Wednesday, when my consultant wanted to suggest me continuing with a vaginal birth, however my blood test was beginning to show signs of sepsis, so the decision was made to take me to theatre.
I have been suffering with a lot of trauma around my birth, and my recovery, and I have lots of questions to ask them, but I was just hoping to hear from someone who maybe was in a similar situation to me, or has experience of a birth reflection and can let me know what to expect.
Thank you!