Is he lying?

Found the Snapchat app on my man’s phone which I never knew he had before …the account had a random user name not his name. It showed conversations with random stranger flirty girls and random friend requests. I clicked the convos and it would be girls sending pictures and sometimes would be convos. When I confronted him about it he was freaking out and was convincing me that he got hacked by a bot. He swore on the Bible. He said That it’s his account but the bot changed his name and did all of this. The only evidence that was saved on the chats were the pictures of the women. I never found pics of him. Only sentences here and there of him complimenting the pictures or replying to someone’s story saying “snap me” . I remember looking at one conversation and noticing that the timing was weird. Like it would show that he sent something around the time where I am actively on his phone and looking at him asleep . But how could it be him if he is sleeping and I’m on his phone? Could he really be hacked or am I blinded by love? Ever since it’s been making my mind go crazy.

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I think he is lying . That’s very strange to simply be a coincidence . Has he been caught out before with something similar

He is forsure lying. That doesnt happen randomly

This app is shit! Ask him to delete it its just bitches hunts man there. Nothing is wrong man is man afterall. Ask him to delete this app and if he does without hesitation nothing is wrong dont overthink

He is almost certainly lying to you.
I know it’s painful to hear, but the "a bot hacked my account" story makes zero technical sense for a few major reasons and That isn't how bots work. When an account actually gets compromised, hackers/bots use it for financial scams, crypto spam, or sending malicious links to as many people as possible. Bots do not take over an account just to manually compliment women, look at pictures, or type specific phrases like "snap me." Having a Snapchat under a random, unrecognized handle is a classic way to keep a hidden profile so friends, family, or partners won't discover it. Leaving specific compliments on girls' photos and asking them to chat requires actual human effort and intent. A bot didn't write those custom replies.

As for the weird timing, snapchat timestamps can often glitch, delay, or update out of order due to background data syncing, poor signal, or app refresh delays. It’s very common to fixate on a tiny detail like a weird timestamp because you want to find a reason to believe him, but don't let that glitch blind you to the mountain of evidence right in front of you.
Freaking out, swearing on the Bible, and blaming an elaborate, technically impossible "flirty bot" scenario are classic moves of someone caught completely off guard.
You aren't going crazy, your gut is telling you the truth. Don't let him gaslight you into believing a computer program is out here flirting on his behalf.

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