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So my 10 month old has been on solids since she was 4 months and has eaten everything we have given her she does have her favourites tho so as she’s grown we have stuck to the things we know she loves but now for the past week she has been mostly refusing to eat especially at breakfast time and now it is morning I tried her with porridge which she loves but she was gagging and spitting it out so I took it away and tried her with some yogurt she spat that out so I ended up giving her some fruit biscuits and she was gagging at the sight of it what could this be down too?

I am going to call the doctors as soon as they open but I’m so confused!

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I said ok I’m gonna just get dressed because I’m not gonna do this when you literally just want to complain when I touch you. He literally got mad and started ranting then left to go get the kids. Am I wrong for not being in the mood anymore when he literally was doing nothing but complaining about how cold I felt on him????? And just saying I have anemia and he keeps our bedroom at 70 degrees or lower with 3 fans on!

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Since being pregnant and getting over the first trimester anxieties after loss I don’t feel much emotional warmth. Recently he has said I’m not nice to be around- we have had arguments about his priorities n drinking.
This week, I had to go to triage for my breathing (low iron and new low thyroid diagnosis) and still felt pretty rubbish, but he went out last night, then had to work instead of go to our pram soo this morning, and then has gone out drinking again.
I am so lonely and just don’t feel a priority with him constantly letting me down.
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We just did a 15h journey. During the 2h wait and 8h30h plane my husband did nothing. During the wait he was on his phone and managing to do a detaxe (but why 2h for it?) and then during the plane He slept and watched movies the all time.
Last night we both had a very few hours sleep.
I was so exhausted and sad bc he said at some point also just let them cry if they want they need to learn. To learn ??!!!! They are 2 and 1 ! Am I crazy ?
I cried at some point. It was damn hard, I was so exhausted. Sad that his tiredness comes 1st before his kids needs. Sad that he knows that I won’t let my babies cry, and he doesn’t care how I am myself .
Then he got very angry at me bc people was seeing me crying and “what are they gonna think I am”
And then he lectured me how I was playing being a victim while I am lucky, bc I don’t lack money while struggling on 3 jobs with 7kids.
Then he knows that I can’t have good sleep when we arr angry at each other but again he refused a cuddle when I finished to say sorry.
I ended to say sorry bc I finished to think yes maybe he is right I am too much ? He works a lot and never takes holidays, he does also a lot. But now re-thinking it I don’t think I’m crazy. Maybe other days he is a good dad yes, tbh since we have 2 not that much but he does work a lot.
And when we came home he took the time to unpack and prepare his computer and watch series !!! So he wasn’t exhausted like me lol…
So am I crazy ?
And what to do ? It is not the first time… every time I finish to say sorry bc I don’t like to be angry then he says sorry too you are right. the day after while I can’t get good sleep. I can’t control to not finding sleep … but he can make the effort to make me feel loved before sleep even if he is angry doesn’t he ?

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