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So me and my partner have been together 6 years, engaged for 3, baby girl who is now 19 months old.

Living situation me and my daughter live with my parents but my partner lives on his RAF Base / his parents on a weekend when he comes home ( Friday to Sunday ).

We put an application form in for RAF Base Housing months ago. Nothing thinking we would be offered one due to not being married yet.

Yesterday ( Monday ) we got an email to say we have been offered a 3 Bed house. The only issue is we are currently in gloucester, but the house on the base we have been offered is 2 hours away from home / work / nurseries for me.

I’ve been wanting to leave my current job for a while now as it’s slowly just getting worse and enjoyable anymore.

I’ve told my parents and they’ve said there happy for me to move out the only concern they have is the distance off the house we have been offered which I completely agree with.

I don’t know how I feel about being that far away from my family…

What would you do in my situation?

Am I being dramatic?

I had a fight with my baby daddy in which he took my 2 kids to his mom's house while I was at work & he said he "was not bringing them back" & that I can "visit". The following is a conversation I had with his mom. Am I in the wrong for wanting to keep my distance from her? For context, his mom is a heavy smoker (when we lived with her she never respected the fact that we had babies & would sometimes smoke weed inside.) She has a weird boyfriend that stalked her, hacked her phone, broke her windshield, slashed her tires & put a tracker in her car (he followed me to my mom's house with his best friend thinking I was her.) she lives at HIS house & she has always made her kids jealous of my babies (her daughter had a dream of killing my babies & just laughed it off when I asked if she would). Sorry this was long but I can also go into more details. My babies are 2 years and a 9 month old, exclusively breastfed & have NEVER slept away from me.. (my babies are with me, they did not stay there). He just made me feel "dramatic" for still being mad about it and not wanting to talk to his mom.

Would you stay or leave?

Long story short, me & my bf have a 2 year old.
My whole pregnancy and 2 years of my son being here hasn’t been easy. I had little support from my bf because he wanted to play golf all the time, be at the pub or worked late. He was an alcoholic and a heavy Ketamine user.. he quit a few weeks ago.
I forgave so many things, like him never supporting or spending time with us, not helping around the house, coming home in a bad way, having seizures or falling from too much drugs and alcohol.. it was scary. I forgave everything, even things like i planned a birthday day out and he got way too drunk, sniffed too much, we left early and he went to get more Ketamine. It ruined my plans and the day completely.

I said a couple months ago he needed to move out if he didn’t stop all of it, so he has.
But now i look back and can’t believe i let him treat me that way.. i feel traumatised and upset when i think back to all the things he had done. And it’s made me fall out of love with him.
But i know he is trying so hard to not go back to alcohol, drugs and is helping more and being present.
What should i do?

Ps, my son has never witnessed him being in a bad way, i have always kept our son in a different room or away from him completely.

Cheating

I was on and off with my baby daddy cause of his behavior and we got pregnant and my dad told me to try and mend things with him so that our baby would at least have that and so I did and I was vulnerable and I knew he was with someone else out of intuition and dreams but I didn’t know forsure and he texts me and tell me he wants to fix things but something in me told me something was off and I found out he slept with someone else and then slept with me a couple days after I’ve been trying to heal from this but he didn’t even tell me if he did or didn’t sleep with her and idk it just hurts so much to know I’m bringing a baby into this situation and her dad can’t even be a man to acknowledge what he’s done and I’m really scared and confused and hurting and I just don’t know what to do in regards to me getting over this any advice ?

Gifts

Do you give gifts to someone who comes to your house the first time or gifts when you go to someone's house for the first time? Or both?

Sex

Am I the only one who just has no interest in sex even if I love my partner? I want to love it but I just can’t I even offered for him to go get it elsewhere. I know that’s not everyone’s cup of tea but I’m just that detached from sex and I feel it’s selfish of me to deprive him of it. He even tells me that he just wants to have sex with his partner but I just don’t want to.