Am I being dramatic?
I had a fight with my baby daddy in which he took my 2 kids to his mom's house while I was at work & he said he "was not bringing them back" & that I can "visit". The following is a conversation I had with his mom. Am I in the wrong for wanting to keep my distance from her? For context, his mom is a heavy smoker (when we lived with her she never respected the fact that we had babies & would sometimes smoke weed inside.) She has a weird boyfriend that stalked her, hacked her phone, broke her windshield, slashed her tires & put a tracker in her car (he followed me to my mom's house with his best friend thinking I was her.) she lives at HIS house & she has always made her kids jealous of my babies (her daughter had a dream of killing my babies & just laughed it off when I asked if she would). Sorry this was long but I can also go into more details. My babies are 2 years and a 9 month old, exclusively breastfed & have NEVER slept away from me..
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If I ever wanted my kids with me I’d go and pick them up -ESPECIALLY if I was concerned for their safety
No you are not in my opinion. With the history you shared already and the fact there is more you haven't I personally would not allow my son in that situation. Speaking for myself I would be leaving work for family emergency and going to get my kid and if I was prevented from access I would call the police and anyone who prevented me would never be having access again unless supervised
This made my blood boil! I’m so sorry you’ll are dealing with this. Absolutely not. They are not looking at what’s best for these young babies and using them for control. The fact that one is going to be deprived of their source of food and comfort/regulation and the other being taken from routine tells you they do not care about “what’s best”. People like this always jump to”he has rights” disregarding that rights come with responsibility to do what’s best for them not what’s best for 1 parent. They also cannot withhold your babies from you away from the home they live full time. Bring police as much as I wouldn’t want to involve them but if not, it’s going to be he said she said, they will at least be witnesses. Stay calm and get your babies away from her AND him who is willing to put them in danger to be petty.
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