Night time wakes/Nap dropping

My almost 2.5 year old has been waking for an hour in the night around 3.30/4am for an hour. He's happy when he wakes...asks for a drink, wee, for us to sing songs to him to help him go back to sleep

We have recently played around with dropping his nap. He used to wake up around 6am, nap around 1-2 or 2.30.( he refuses earlier naps ). Then he wouldn't go to bed until around 9 or 9.30. I tried capping his nap but this caused enormous tantrums and didn't make a difference to bed times. I've tried dropping the nap the last two weeks and he falls asleep by 7pm. BUT, he's waking up for this hour in the night and then sleeping in until around 8 or 8.30am.
Any tips? He has slept very well since 18months old x

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This was 6 weeks Post Partum on my first girls trip, although I looked the part it didn’t feel the same. Thought of leaving my baby girl and the sleep deprivation.

Felt like going into back hibernation 😭

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Can i have some advice please, my little girl as been fighting server night terrors for a few months now.
Been back and forward to the doctors with her and now they wont me to monitor her hb. So I did it lastnight and it was OK.
But I've just done it now shes lieing still in her bed, and it's 110 hb.
Im asking is this hight for a 3yr old?
Thanks x

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