Am I the Ahole?

He's definitely the asshole. Not you.

I mean you got 6 kids and currently pregant so you ain't technically ugly to him...he just got issues. He is the definite ahole.

Men cheating rarely ever has to do with the partner. You’re literally gorgeous. Something is wrong with him in head, that’s why they do this shit.

Hes in the wrong i would have a long talk

Id divorce so fast, that money is meant for your family not no hoes my husband did it once and I said if I see that shit again it would be over. Especially when we dont have money like that to start with

Most men expect women to be the bloody image of perfection when we deal with our children, our home, their needs and onto of that the mental health issues that can go along side all of this. It's impossible. From what I've seen is once a woman is a mother their every ounce of energy goes into everything else and what we look like, feel like, want or need becomes below even the bottom of the line. So men seek other women when they've assisted that down fall of us but simply not supporting us or giving us the feeling we are actually worth something.

So mu answer to you is no your not the a hole, your an amazing strong woman who has been let down by a man child that can't step up and show his woman that he's actually a decent human.

What a POS. I don’t see in any context of this where you could be the ahole.

Sis I wouldn’t recommend you having anymore kids by him. You are not the Ahole. He’s a cheater period. Get yourself together , level up however you can whether that’s getting back into school online , your maintenance etc. Put yourself in a better position financially and mentally and go from there …Sending love ❤️