So me and partner have been together for 5 yrs now. We have a 9month old little boy.
At the start of our relationship we were very active with our sex lives and overtime it died out. When we was trying to convince it picked up again….
Since our baby and while I was pregnant I just don’t feel for it anymore. It’s like I have no libido anymore. Can’t even get excited if that makes sense.
I think the last time I actually cum during sex was well over a year ago. I just feel so uncomfortable with him going down on me and even touching me to be honest.
I love my partner a lot and I want to be able to have these moments with him again I just can’t even stand the thought of it
I’m open to any suggestions to help
Thank you
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What about going to sex therapy? Id also suggest the books come as you are and come together by Dr Emily nagoski
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