Hi all just looking for opinions, or maybe I’m just looking for reassurance….
We are due to go away next month for my partners birthday, my baby will be 7 months by then. My partner would love for us to go away for 2 nights but I just feel like 2 nights is too much while my little one is so young, I think a lot of it is guilt and due to the fact I haven’t left him with other people much yet. What are your views? Have you left your little one over night or maybe 2 nights, and at what sort of age?
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Learn more about our guidelines.I work from home. My manager has just randomly said he needs to speak with me about work.
Only problem is I have already picked my kid up from nursery and she is currently with me. Partner is out.
Basically I cannot have a meeting right now,
I read his message and have just ignored it. Which he knows.
I need to follow up. What should I say!?!?!
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My daughter has a lil bestie at nursery.
She is always talking about him. They run up to each other and hug etc. It's honestly the sweetest thing.
I've only ever seen his parents like once. But I'm thinking next time I see them should I just be a lil begfriend and try to start a convo with them.
Like hey our kids are friends should we be friends 😂😅🤣 Lord help me, I am rusty.
No but seriously.... What do you do?
Do you make friends with your toddlers friend parents or just leave it alone.
We don't have friends in this area. So it would be nice if some weekends she can just go to the park and play with him.
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I never see posts about admiring our husband instead all i see is useless , selfish, toxic relationships. Anyways it’s 3:21am and I couldn’t sleep bc our baby kept waking up needing her paci and my husband took our baby girl to go sleep in the guest room together so i can get some sleep. he also wakes up every morning and makes me 3 bottles to see me up already ahead on the morning. my hubby runs my feet every night before bed, ive never had to wash dishes or laundry bc he knows i hate those specific chores and i handle everything else. husband never learned how to cook but he started taking classes early into our relationship, he has always bin kind, consistent , and considerate and have NEVER changed we have bin together for 6 years total & married 3 years. we are not rich by any mean lol at allllll but he always makes sure we have what we need and I am blessed enough to be able to swipe his card whenever i like and it never declines. I’ve gained a lot of weight with my two pregnancies. We have two children under two and he has bin so patient and encouraging about me getting back into shape every time I criticize myself he shuts it down and just overall speaks life into me. I just wanted to rant about how grateful I am for my man and all he does and if you got a good man at home they deserve the same recognition as us mothers get all the time
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ok whaaatt is everyone doing when their littles are at school?! i mean besides clean! i have to fill 9 hour days 5 days a week! lol

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What would a SAHM do with a 3 yr old and 2 yr old? I’ve been home with them for basically 4 years, only working off and on due to no child care. Relationship is on the rocks. I’m tired of fighting and crying in front of my girls. I want out. We are not married. Do I go live back with my mom in her 1 bedroom apartment while she already has my older sister and her 2 kids (21&20) living there. I just hate how I feel during our fights and arguments and just wonder if I would be less stressed if I just gave this all up. My 3 yr old is so attached to her dad I know she would ask for him everyday if we were apart. Been praying very hard, I just don’t know what to do
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Quick question, how long after getting home from work does your husband/partner take over care of the baby? I’m usually waiting 45 mins to an hour and I feel like that’s ages….
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