Overdue mamas

I’m 40+5 today and a VBAC and feeling the pressure from midwives to have intervention- anyone else waiting it out? Or any recent positive overdue experiences?

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So sorry they are putting pressure onto you! Not surprised though it seems so common, but you can always say that you'd rather wait for baby to ready to born 💚 I know I am surprised to still be pregnant as first came early ( well I ended up trapped in timings after my water leaked...and had to end up in an emergency c section eventually... ) but I am decided to let baby chose as long as they belong healthy!
Strength to you, we are the ones who showed up be able to chose! ✨

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I am currently 41 and 2 days and due to be induced with my second child this Sunday . I got induced with my first but I went way over I waited till 43 weeks x

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I’m 41 today and feeling exactly the same way. Got induction booked for Tuesday (41+3) and already had 3 sweeps (all 1/2cm) but literally no signs of labour. Obviously I know how my induction went last time and now dreading it with a toddler in tow…

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Go with what you feel is right and they will support you. I'm 40+3 had a failed sweep yesterday. I decided I'm willing to go to 41+5 and then will take intervention might have to be monitored for a few days but they are happy with that and supporting the decision. Baby is in good position and engaged but cervix hasnt thinned out enough.

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I declined all intervention except a sweep (didnt work) but went into spontaneous labour at 40weeks+6 days with no signs until the moment my contractions started! I would've waited until 42 weeks before decided on induction or c section and I had no pressure at all from anyone to do anything! Sorry to hear you feel pressured

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I’m 40+2 and also a VBAC, this will be my third VBAC though 🥰 I’m sorry they’re trying to push interventions! With my first VBAC they said they were happy to leave me until 41+5 before discussing induction etc! I’ve decided to book an induction for 41 weeks this time just due to timing and kids going back to school etc! With my first VBAC I was willing to wait as long as it took (even if that was over 42) as long as we were fine but ended up needing to be induced at 41+2 😫

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Sorry you’re experiencing this. I think a lot of it comes down to when YOU want to accept anything and telling them exactly when. I said I wasn’t interested in induction until 42 weeks and the consultant was completely supportive and absolutely no push for anything before then.

My previous VBAC was at 41+6 so I know my body needs a long time 😅

You’re almost there 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽 ‘overdue’ days are loong but hang in there Mama xxx

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I let them book me an induction for when i was 41 weeks, with a plan to push that back upto 42 weeks, I went into spontanous labour at 40+5 and got my vbac thankfully🎉 fingers crossed for you x

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Held my nerve and waited it out - went to 41+5 and had a pool birth - so glad I held strong as I know how tough it is when you start getting pressurised into an induction

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