Hi after some help and space. I had terrible PNDA after my first baby, husband wasn’t on side with me taking meds, said he was too worried about side effects of sertraline on the baby. 6 months later depression was worse, talk of going to the mum and baby unit etc. very reluctantly I stopped BF so I could start meds. Now we’re talking about baby #2 and he is saying it would be the same deal with meds and risk to the baby, so if I got depression/anxiety while pregnant no meds and if I needed anything after baby is born I could only while not BF. Feeling so scared of the same experience but more so feel like I’m going crazy feeling like I want more support but then feeling like I’m being unfair because if I stopped BF I could have just taken the meds all along. While bf/pregnant I know we need to make healthy choices for baby, but does that not include healthy choices for ourselves too?
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Learn more about our guidelines.Had my daughter 9 weeks ago and I’m not sure why i feel like my son who is 2 keeps on annoying me and i just want him out of the way and all i can think about is my life without him .. he has autism and makes everything so much harder and I’m 22 trying to juggle all of this i feel crazy i had such a strong bond with my son when i was pregnant but after i have started to feel like i kind of don’t like him and wish he just wasn’t around me has anyone experienced this problem please i feel crazy and horrible i love my son but i just don’t understand why i feel like this
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I’m due really soon, but honestly, the healing down below part after birth is on my mind honestly how bad is it? What are your guys stories or any advice please 🥹 I bought a peri bottle and perineal relief spray so far, anything else?

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My baby girl is 2 months old, and she recently went through a formula change, she was going regularly, and then all of a sudden she has stopped being regular... its also presenting itself as diarrhea, is that normal??

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Morning everyone! Just wondering what a typical day looks like for you? How often is your baby on a play mat or in a bouncer etc?
I'm not really sure what my wake windows should look like and how long she should spend in my arms or on her play mat etc Per wake window / day.

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Does anyone else’s 3 month old suddenly hate their car seat? He used to be fine in it but now every drive he is hysterical to the point of no consoling without stopping the car. Is it the car seat or just a phase?

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My seven month old is wearing 12 to 18 months clothes and I’m struggling to find onesies or zipper pajamas this sizs. should I just go ahead and start using pants shorts and regular shirts and then for pajamas maybe also just pants and shirt instead of zipper
He sleeps through the night, so no diaper changes

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